Falcon25 said:
In my 34 yrs on this earth, I have never seen women as classless, disloyal, whorish, and selfish as I do now. It has gotten so bad that I cannot even consider marrying an American woman. Times have changed.
On the money.
There are a few guys on this forum who are throwing around the label "misogynist" whenever discussion of the general behavior of women comes up.
The fact is that in the evolution of this forum, the time has come to discuss what we are clearly perceiving on a societal level, not because we aimlessly want to bash women, but because we need to identify what we are dealing with and develop a methodolgy to deal with the issues. It is MOST IMPORTANT that we discuss these issues because the worst thing we can do is to throw up our hands and say, "What can I do? That's just the way it is."
If I hear that label "misogynist" one more time....
Interestingly, it's almost always the younger crowd who bellows out this label (except for one guy in his 30's who is on a crusade about this subject). In my view this clearly illustrates the effect that femminine and femminist education has had on these younger lads. Throwing out those simplistic labels is a decidely weak and femminine trait, and it is becoming the status quo in many young men.
We need to discuss every aspect of male/female relations, the good, the bad, and the ugly, in order to figure out a way to deal with the current state of affairs. Most of the younger guys here are completely, utterly blind to the following fact: Women have not in fact "always been this way". You are under a delusion if you think that, because you've been told that. Us older guys, however, have lived it, not just read about it. When I was in my teens, twenties, and even into my 30's women in general had much more decency and showed more respect to men, although a steady erosion was visible. Interestingly, it was insanely easy to get laid back then. There was none of this "picky-ness" that the women of today are now showing. Now the dense guys here will rail against me and say "times were different then. I'm tired of hearing about the "good old days". We're in a different era."
Precisely my point! We older guys are not talking about "how it used to be" in order to pointlessly bemoan some kind of "golden age". Rather, we are trying to point out something that the younger guys simply have no way of knowing because of the revisionist history they've been exposed to: Namely, that women have "always been the way they are". Absolutely not true.
Have they always had the same tendancies? Yes, absolutely. But today in this sick society those tendancies have become accepted and even encouraged, to the detriment and almost complete obliteration of male/female relationships. The very existence of this forum illustrates how sick our society has become. People have been meeting and mating since the dawn of time, and today we find ourselves examining our nevels in order to figure out how to "attract" a woman. Nature has been disrupted by our societal experimants and contrivances (femminism mostly, and the fault lies with men, not women.
Men, because of fear of rejection, have allowed their world to be turned upside-down. A few femminist loud-mouths were the spark that spawned the flame, and the toxic shame that many if not most men were taught has caused them to lose all backbone and coincidentally lose the respect of women in the process.
Nature will have her way. Society can play with social contrivances for a little while, but nature will always win out. Today our society is steeped in a bizarre sickness, a reversal of genders in many ways, and this will only last for so long until the implosion occurs. I see it on the horizon now. I like to think that we are on the forefront of change. By discussing these issues, we are preparing society for the normaqlization of gender roles and social understanding.
Throwing around the label of "misogynist" only serves to thwart our efforts and hold us back from being proactive.
NEVER accept "how it is". Be prepared to SACRIFICE in order to effect change for our sons and grandsons. We need to discuss this stuff now in order to prepare for the work we have ahead of us. The simple-minded, female-educated youngsters will yell, "misogynist" and shake their heads at what they perceive as old-timers wishing for yesteryear. But the more intelligent, aware youngsters, and most of the oldsters will recognize that this is not aimless, pointless bashing. Rather, it is necessary discourse in order to formulate the game plan. Some can see it, some are simply unable to. There's more to defining the parameters of today's society than meets the eye. When you have lived through the changes instead of just reading about them, you have a different perspective. You cannot tell a fish that it is wet. It never knew anything but living in water, so it can't imagine what it is to be out of the water. Similarly, if you were born in recent decades, you can't know what male/female relations were like 30 or 40 years ago, except by the revisionist history that is out there. The battle cry is always, "Women have always been this way!" WRONG! Open up your minds to the possibility that you were born into a bizarre carnival of sick, twisted gender issues that have NEVER been the norm.
I suspect there are lots of typos in this, but I've got to get out of here.