"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women avoid looking at me at all costs

LaughyDuck

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I know I shouldn't be concerned about that, but it would nice to have more women sending me signals.
I only noticed that very pretty women eye me up in public. Since I don't come across very pretty women often the majority of women avoid looking at me.
Not sure if they see me before or avoid looking at strangers in general but it seems to me that they don't want to look in my eyes at all cost.
I had people tell me that I am a bit intimitating and not bad looking at all.

I would appreciate some honest opinions .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LaughyDuck

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Cold approach until you feel more comfortable.
I have cold approached plenty of women with good and bad results. But for me personally it's annoying that women don't look at me at all most of the time. I know this myself if I see a very pretty girl and I don't know her very well I don't look her in the eyes for too long because I get the feeling that I start staring at her. Also women seem to downplay me in public very much - mostly rather unattractive women. Is that they just shy away?
What do you think @Chi Town and @AJ84 ?
 

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If your a very good looking guy you will gets looks all the time, sometimes girls will purposely avoid showing interest in the good looking guys because they don't wanna boost there egos(it happens to me) but other than that, if you never seem to catch girls looking at you or checking you out then maybe your just average looking, not a bad thing at all, just means you will have to approach without any signs of interest.

I know plenty guys who pull this off so don't feel bad. On a scale of 1-10 What would you rate yourself? If you are in the 8+ range then you will get looks all the time.
 

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If your a very good looking guy you will gets looks all the time, sometimes girls will purposely avoid showing interest in the good looking guys because they don't wanna boost there egos(it happens to me) but other than that, if you never seem to catch girls looking at you or checking you out then maybe your just average looking, not a bad thing at all, just means you will have to approach without any signs of interest.

I know plenty guys who pull this off so don't feel bad. On a scale of 1-10 What would you rate yourself? If you are in the 8+ range then you will get looks all the time.
I am probably 8+ not delusional at all. In europe I get stares looks all the time but know here (middle east) I rarely catch women stare at me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am probably 8+ not delusional at all. In europe I get stares looks all the time but know here (middle east) I rarely catch women stare at me.
Well if your a 8+ then if your not getting looks then these girls purposely avoiding looking at you because they don't wanna boost your ego, we do the same thing, I know when I see a good looking chick I go out of my way to not let her catch me checking her out because I don't wanna boost her already inflated ego lol, trust me when I tell you these girls are checking you out, if your really a 8+ then there's no way you will go unnoticed in any social situation.

Any time you are in public women will notice you, know that and believe that. Also, be more vigilant, I noticed once I started be more intuned with my surroundings I would literally catch 2+ girls checking me out at any given time lol.
 

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Well if your a 8+ then if your not getting looks then these girls purposely avoiding looking at you because they don't wanna boost your ego, we do the same thing, I know when I see a good looking chick I go out of my way to not let her catch me checking her out because I don't wanna boost her already inflated ego lol, trust me when I tell you these girls are checking you out, if your really a 8+ then there's no way you will go unnoticed in any social situation.

Any time you are in public women will notice you, know that and believe that. Also, be more vigilant, I noticed once I started be more intuned with my surroundings I would literally catch 2+ girls checking me out at any given time lol.
Thanks dude ! You are probably right...I have sent you a PM
 

Who Dares Win

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If a girl makes a willing effort to not look at you or cross eyes it goes way above low interest, its open disgust...sorry to say that.

Its not about being intimidated or some other rationalization, people avoid eye contact with beggars, homeless people, drunks and sick ones usually.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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They're not interested.
And neither am I. I let them know, "and neither am I." There are other girls in other places. Just shunt your mind to "off" on that girl, she's nobody, she's not even existing so you just experience the life of the birds or trees that may be around living and not this non-entity who won't say "hi" (not that I think every woman or man should say "hi," although it was more common in the past to greet everyone you cross paths with). A lot of women HATE today (and no I'm not talkin about RACE, just their cellphone is their vibrator so they hate to nothingness because they worship inanimate objects or idols, it's soul-vaporizing - you can't do anything about them who are wrapped up in nonsensical things, the habits, you may change them temporarily, but they'll revert cause they are addicted to the easy way out).
 
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