"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yo'Mama

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I wish I had read this damn thread BEFORE asking out the girl who sits NEXT to me at work, lol. She said yes (and seemed really keen) but the date was a disaster (she was incredibly dull and I drunk myself stupid as a result). Now there's this horrible awkwardness at work. Actually she's not talking to me at all. To make matters worse she looks hotter every day it seems. It's really not a good situation.

No criticism needed. I already know how stupid this was. First time I asked out a girl at work. You live and learn.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yo'Mama said:
I wish I had read this damn thread BEFORE asking out the girl who sits NEXT to me at work, lol. She said yes (and seemed really keen) but the date was a disaster (she was incredibly dull and I drunk myself stupid as a result). Now there's this horrible awkwardness at work. Actually she's not talking to me at all. To make matters worse she looks hotter every day it seems. It's really not a good situation.

No criticism needed. I already know how stupid this was. First time I asked out a girl at work. You live and learn.
Dude I work around all of these little cuties and have to restrain myself for the very same reasons!

It will blow into the past just super focus on what you need to be doing and pretend nothing happened! It is what it is!

The red head I have a crush I on I honestly simply have to ignore. It sucks but what else is there.
 

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Buddha_Mind said:
Dude I work around all of these little cuties and have to restrain myself for the very same reasons!

It will blow into the past just super focus on what you need to be doing and pretend nothing happened! It is what it is!

The red head I have a crush I on I honestly simply have to ignore. It sucks but what else is there.
Thanks man. You're right. The thing is it was bearable BEFORE I asked her out. I could kind of enjoy flirtatious banter with this girl and that was it. But I felt like I was missing out by not asking her out. Anyway now she has gone from being the cute and nice girl that sits next to me to the hot total bi*ch that sits next to me, lol. All because I took her on a date and showed my interest. Now she won't even say good morning. I mean what the f**k right?

So anyway, I think you did the right thing by making this thread and avoiding the very mistake I went ahead and made. I know I'm being over sensitive but it has really made me not want to even go into work.
 
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