"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I wish I had read this damn thread BEFORE asking out the girl who sits NEXT to me at work, lol. She said yes (and seemed really keen) but the date was a disaster (she was incredibly dull and I drunk myself stupid as a result). Now there's this horrible awkwardness at work. Actually she's not talking to me at all. To make matters worse she looks hotter every day it seems. It's really not a good situation.

No criticism needed. I already know how stupid this was. First time I asked out a girl at work. You live and learn.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yo'Mama said:
I wish I had read this damn thread BEFORE asking out the girl who sits NEXT to me at work, lol. She said yes (and seemed really keen) but the date was a disaster (she was incredibly dull and I drunk myself stupid as a result). Now there's this horrible awkwardness at work. Actually she's not talking to me at all. To make matters worse she looks hotter every day it seems. It's really not a good situation.

No criticism needed. I already know how stupid this was. First time I asked out a girl at work. You live and learn.
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Dude I work around all of these little cuties and have to restrain myself for the very same reasons!

It will blow into the past just super focus on what you need to be doing and pretend nothing happened! It is what it is!

The red head I have a crush I on I honestly simply have to ignore. It sucks but what else is there.
 
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Buddha_Mind said:
Dude I work around all of these little cuties and have to restrain myself for the very same reasons!

It will blow into the past just super focus on what you need to be doing and pretend nothing happened! It is what it is!

The red head I have a crush I on I honestly simply have to ignore. It sucks but what else is there.
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Thanks man. You're right. The thing is it was bearable BEFORE I asked her out. I could kind of enjoy flirtatious banter with this girl and that was it. But I felt like I was missing out by not asking her out. Anyway now she has gone from being the cute and nice girl that sits next to me to the hot total bi*ch that sits next to me, lol. All because I took her on a date and showed my interest. Now she won't even say good morning. I mean what the f**k right?

So anyway, I think you did the right thing by making this thread and avoiding the very mistake I went ahead and made. I know I'm being over sensitive but it has really made me not want to even go into work.
 
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