Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Women at work playing games. Starting to get annoying

DJnoob

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since im the only guy in my department..everyone is flirting with me there.. its driving me nutz.(first I was enjoying it... and now its starting to get annoying) (I'm known as the "Jerk" by the way)
The reason is because you don't know whether they are just playing around or actually being serious.. Then this milf comes along and she was totally using her bag of tricks on me today.

One example:

Me: oh, i think im off at 3:30
Milf: im off at 3:30 too
Me: oh wait, nvm... im off at 3:00
milf: im off at 3:00 too!

(btw, this milf looks like stifflers mom from American Pie)

In my head I was like WTF.. . Everyone seems to be ganging up on me..they prolly talk behind my back about how to mess around with my head since I haven't shown any signs of AFC

Is there anyway to filter out the ones who are REALLY interested?

Thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJnoob

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Im being tested left and right every hour...

AFC means average frustrated chump
 

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Make a move and you'll find out. Call on their bs if they decline.
 

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if you want it to stop then put out that you have a GF already.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are you actually interested in any girl at work?
 

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Originally posted by Tear Gas
Make a move and you'll find out. Call on their bs if they decline.
Shut up and go read the bible.

Play right back. Play with all of them at the same time and WALK AWAY. Dont take them seriously and just have fun with them.
 

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Originally posted by DJnoob
Is there anyway to filter out the ones who are REALLY interested?

Thanks
How about: no dipping your pen in the company ink?

This is your job man, you are there to work. Don't mess with it. It's not worth it.

If you're such a DJ, you can find women outside of work.

Use those positive interactions at work to pump up your confidence and game focus.
 
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I half to agree with Seialized3, don't mess with girls at work. THis is because not only do you have to see them after is goes bad, you may even develop a bad rep from them that they will pass around to the others.

You want to weed them out still?? Well read Anti-Dumps machine and you'll find all your answers.

ADKdj
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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