"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women at work playing games. Starting to get annoying

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since im the only guy in my department..everyone is flirting with me there.. its driving me nutz.(first I was enjoying it... and now its starting to get annoying) (I'm known as the "Jerk" by the way)
The reason is because you don't know whether they are just playing around or actually being serious.. Then this milf comes along and she was totally using her bag of tricks on me today.

One example:

Me: oh, i think im off at 3:30
Milf: im off at 3:30 too
Me: oh wait, nvm... im off at 3:00
milf: im off at 3:00 too!

(btw, this milf looks like stifflers mom from American Pie)

In my head I was like WTF.. . Everyone seems to be ganging up on me..they prolly talk behind my back about how to mess around with my head since I haven't shown any signs of AFC

Is there anyway to filter out the ones who are REALLY interested?

Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Im being tested left and right every hour...

AFC means average frustrated chump
 
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Make a move and you'll find out. Call on their bs if they decline.
 
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if you want it to stop then put out that you have a GF already.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are you actually interested in any girl at work?
 
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Originally posted by Tear Gas
Make a move and you'll find out. Call on their bs if they decline.
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Shut up and go read the bible.

Play right back. Play with all of them at the same time and WALK AWAY. Dont take them seriously and just have fun with them.
 
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Originally posted by DJnoob
Is there anyway to filter out the ones who are REALLY interested?

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How about: no dipping your pen in the company ink?

This is your job man, you are there to work. Don't mess with it. It's not worth it.

If you're such a DJ, you can find women outside of work.

Use those positive interactions at work to pump up your confidence and game focus.
 
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ADifferentKindofDJ

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I half to agree with Seialized3, don't mess with girls at work. THis is because not only do you have to see them after is goes bad, you may even develop a bad rep from them that they will pass around to the others.

You want to weed them out still?? Well read Anti-Dumps machine and you'll find all your answers.

ADKdj
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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