Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A funny phenomenon I always wanted to get more feedback on is that certain women from second 1 assume you not only want to **** them, but are after them! And directly complain feeling annoyed.
I have once entered a restaurant alone when after a while a waiter kame up to me telling me, they dont want me here staring at his female collegue. I didnt even see her!! Thats when it became more than clear to me. How twisted is that?
Not every man can relate to that, but many can, how about you guys?
Its really amusing, but sad at the same time, mostly its not even very pretty chics that freak like that. But its sad when its an HB10 because then you have no chance from start on anyway. What could one do to prove your "innocence"? Everything you say works against you it seams...
Or what is it what some women see in men, that makes them fantasize he is after her?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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if a water ever acused me of that AND I WAS RELLY INOCENT, i would tell him that i'll scream ****roach and i'll make so much trouble for him....i will scare away every single person in that restorant......fvcking bastards......

In most other cases I couldn't care less.....I know the truth, and i know i didn't want them, and that's enough. If they have some grand delusion about them selvs, I really couldn't care less (unless it gets me in trouble.)
 

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nice one, snorida! but (with one exeption) I am not interested in those women at all, but have a hard time having them setting up everybody against me.

It is not exactly what you guys understand, its much weirder.

There has been a Henry Miller movie where (or Charles Bukowski, whatever) a fat old women picked up the main actor and for the fun of it he went home with her. The moment he touched her, she called for the police, saying he tried to rape her.

This happens quite a lot! In the movie the actor came into trouble for it, any word the man says turns against him in a situation like that.
 
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I'd sue the restaruant for harassment up to the maximum small claim's court limit if that ever happened. That would put them in their place.
 

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i freaked out a bit, which was intersting as i hardly spoke spanish those days, but in rage sometimes your mind works wonders and i could speak quite well. anyway, by law here most places have the right to refuse serving without giving any reason. actually they excused and offered to serve me but i left.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've had that happen a lot of times, but its usually with ugly chicks.

I was at a bar one day, and just out of courtesy, I said hello to an ugly b!tch sitting next to me. She snubs her nose and says something like, "Not a chance." I'm serious, this chick is a 4-5. I burst out laughing and said, "Are you kidding me?" before grabbing my drink and walking away. I see her every so often stuff, and she gives me angry glares.

Every so often, hot girls do the same, and when that happens, I usually don't bother, because it's a sign of inflated ego. Sometimes, if I'm sadistic enough that day, I tell them off subtly, and though it accomplishes nothing, I feel better inside. It's nice to play the mind game.
 

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I have once entered a restaurant alone when after a while a waiter kame up to me telling me, they dont want me here staring at his female collegue. I didnt even see her!! Thats when it became more than clear to me. How twisted is that?
I think you just crossed paths with a jealous AFC there. Why else would he dream up stuff like that?
 

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Ok in that type of situation, just ****y funny it if its a HB10. "you? (look her up and down) nah don't worry I won't be looking at you very often (****y smile)" They will want you after that. We'll they'd want me.. :p With a fat *****.. just try not to offend them. I know what you mean. Its always the ugmos you don't want who assume this kind of crap.
 
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