"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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women ask how much I make per month

Firestar786

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met a few girls who know I have a business.

from the outset when meeting me nice car, clothes etc they can tell the business is sucessful.

They later proceed to ask how much I make per month (as in profit)

Is this something to be worried about ,or is this from curiosity? Or should I use my instinct per situation.

Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jaylan

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I would immediately relegate a woman to fvk buddy status for that. It would make it obvious to me what she's looking for. A good woman, hell any respectful person that values privacy, wont ask you how much money you make when they barely know you.

But maybe thats just me. Ive been taught that salary is a private thing, and I usually discuss it with close friends and close family members. Its a turn off when people I barely know are nosey like that...especially a woman.
 

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"Slow down honey, you're ruining 'the moment'. All information will be given on a need to know basis"

And yes, revealing those cards in the early going puts you in serious danger of getting boxed into beta bucks status. Don't ever grow bitter or paranoid of girls wanting for you to open up about this sort of information though. Treat it with the same amusement you'd dole out to a little five year old sitting in the back seat of your car as you drive to some distant theme park, asking "Daaaaad, are we there yet???" If they continue to claw for you to tell them, simply next them.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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Could be out of curiosity, either way, doesn't seem very tactful.

You: none of your business

or

You: that's on a need to know basis, and you don't need to know.

or

You: A billion dollars, but I donate most of it to charity.

or

You: Enough to survive on Ramen noodles and spaghetti oh's (no fvcks given)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SeymourCake

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Red flag. Ask her how much she leeches off per month.
 

El Payaso

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The person who said a billion and you donate it to charity is a good answer. It's a great opportunity for a C&F response.
 

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Firestar786 said:
met a few girls who know I have a business.

from the outset when meeting me nice car, clothes etc they can tell the business is sucessful.

They later proceed to ask how much I make per month (as in profit)

Is this something to be worried about ,or is this from curiosity? Or should I use my instinct per situation.

Thanks.
Come on bro, you obviously told these girls you have a business, and you want them to ask you such a question.

But how can you be so confused about a simple question from a girl, when you run such a successful business? :trouble:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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VladPatton

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That's when you get up and leave.
 

old_skoolr

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Woman: How much money do you make?

Old_skoolr: Enough to get you....

I'm all for C&F most of the time, but if a girl asks me that, that's the answer Id give.

The girl showed shes a gold digger, and shes attracted to your wealth. All you gotta give is an answer that'll seal the deal.

No C&F for this, just straight to the point.
 

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Tell any women that asks how much you earn to "FVCK OFF". No other response is needed.
 

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Doesn't necessarily mean anything, so you have to let it go.
Answer the truth if you like, much higher\lower than that if you like, tell her she's not close enough to ask if you like ...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Female: "How much money do you make?"
You: "What color is your underwear?"
 
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