"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women as they age?

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Your third point is subjective and therefore not a fact.

If you were to ask me how many women over 30 look good, I would say "some". Get closer to age 40 and I would say "a few". Over 40, "not many".

I'll stick with my 25 year olds.

Ahhhhh....it's good to be a man in your 30's. Options, options, options....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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if you go to craigslist.org and do a quick scan on what age range women are looking for. this is what I got for my area:

Age 18-21 : These girls want guys from their age till late 20s.
Age 22-25 : These girls want guys from their age till mid 30s.
Age 26-29 : These girls want guys from their age till late 30s.
 

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Name a single, female celebrity the same age as Harrison Ford or Sean Connery that enjoys the same sex appeal at their age? The prosecution rests.
 

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Barbara Streisand was born the same year as Harrison Ford, and last time I saw her on tv or in a picture she looked a heck of a lot better than he did. Would you like me to find more examples? I bet any guy at any age you post here I can find a woman the same age or older who looks better.

And 1930...the year Sean Connery was born...so was Anne Francis and Polly Bergen who both look much, much better and younger than he does unless they have drastically changed over the last couple of years.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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STR8UP said:
I think "a few" would be more accurate than "a lot".

You are trying hard to make yourself feel better by justifying the value of older women in the mating game.
Daaaaaaaaamn . . .Ouch. He got ya there granny :rock:



When it comes down to it, you can say whatever you want but all things equal the younger woman wins in the mating game 99% of the time.
This is one of lifes truisms which the Cougar loathes to accept.
 

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Desdinova said:
Look halfway down the page on this site:

http://www.geocities.com/Hollywood/7990/plastic.html

She got a facelift.
I've heard that Harrison Ford has had multiple face lifts as well. However she looks that good at almost 72 years old really isn't the point anyhow...the point is that if someone didn't know who she was and how old she was there is no way t hey would ever guess her to be that old. Even without a face lift...she still looked better than Sean Connery and Harrison Ford.
 

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Maybe Sophia Loren had one of those p*ssy lifts too. You know that new surgery where they tighten up the vagina for male pleasure. Cause you know by the age of 60-70, it's like punching the pillow or dropping down a sausage down an elevator shaft.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Even without a face lift...she still looked better than Sean Connery and Harrison Ford.
I'm not even sure why this got thrown into this thread, since it's irrelevant.

1) I wouldn't fvck Sean Connery or Harrison Ford
2) Most people don't have the money to spend on facelifts
 

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Desdinova said:
I'm not even sure why this got thrown into this thread, since it's irrelevant.

1) I wouldn't fvck Sean Connery or Harrison Ford
2) Most people don't have the money to spend on facelifts
I wouldn't touch Sean Connery or Harrison Ford either. The point is that the claims that men age either better or worse than women is a load of mallarkey. People who take care of themselves and make the effort age better than people who don't.

If older guys prefer younger girls...all the more power to them. In the process of going after what they prefer they don't need to justify that choice by making inaccurate claims about older women (that they can't have kids or don't age well, etc.). That's the only point I'm making.
 

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Macgyver said:
Maybe Sophia Loren had one of those p*ssy lifts too. You know that new surgery where they tighten up the vagina for male pleasure. Cause you know by the age of 60-70, it's like punching the pillow or dropping down a sausage down an elevator shaft.
:crackup:
 

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The point is that the claims that men age either better or worse than women is a load of mallarkey. People who take care of themselves and make the effort age better than people who don't.
Not too sure about that. Michael Jackson can be thrown into the same category as Sophia Loren, and he looks horrid.

Also, it doesn't really fvcking matter since women are generally attracted more to personality than looks. With men, it's the opposite. That's the way men and women work, and it's always how they'll work.
 

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Macgyver said:
Maybe Sophia Loren had one of those p*ssy lifts too. You know that new surgery where they tighten up the vagina for male pleasure. Cause you know by the age of 60-70, it's like punching the pillow or dropping down a sausage down an elevator shaft.
I hear it looks like road kill.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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STR8UP said:
...If you were to ask me how many women over 30 look good, I would say "some". Get closer to age 40 and I would say "a few". Over 40, "not many".....
And the ones that do look d@mn good... Two words; Demi Moore. :rockon:
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
And the ones that do look d@mn good... Two words; Demi Moore. :rockon:
I met Sandra Bullock and Jesse James when I was waitressing before. I waited on them, actually. Even with almost no make up on she looks great...and such a sweetheart, too. They were both extremely nice. I was SO making fun of Jesse James and his dislike of vegetables. Sandra joined in and he was getting it from both sides...he loved it, though.
 

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Anyone who thinks that a body consisting of on average at least 30% body fat is going to age better than a body with 20% or below is kidding themselves. And we know which body belongs to which sex. Tits being fatty tissue are a prime example of saglasticity.

Can a woman conceive at age 60 without intervention. Oh no. But a man can impregnate. Nature's yardstick is reproductive capability, not whether you have a taut hairline.
 

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But women don't need to get an erection in order to function sexually...and who the hell wants to be a parent at 60?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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