SeymourCake
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I'm tired of living this way.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Women are the greatest gift to man, but the worst curse to me
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Women are wh0res, and get used to the reality of dying alone or settling with a girl that's rid the c0ck carousel.
Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
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I never fully "cured" this women problem that has plagued me since the beginning.
I'm just a guy who learned from a lot of mistakes I made with women in the past. So I'm more like a "highly functional" type that can score once in a while.
My point is, I don't think this is a condition to be "cured." You just manage it or treat it as you go.
You might never be the same as a (natural) guy that had girls after him since day 1. That's ok.
It's not about any of that. It's about building a life that makes you happy by trying new things until you find things you are passionate about AND improving yourself. The right woman might come along or she might not. That's not under your direct control.
Otherwise, it's like a script/routine in your head that NEVER ends, "What's wrong with me? Why do women hate me? Why do they consider me so different/weird/unattractive as compared to other guys?"
This stupid infinite loop recording can play in your head for YEARS if you let it while your life goes nowhere.
Focus on YOU. If you have the opportunity to score here and there along this journey, cool. But don't put your life or happiness on hold worrying about what some kum-dumpsters think of you.
Remember, your train is leaving. Women can get on board with you or be left at station. It's their choice. Don't be left at the station trying to pick them up either. Get on board, close the doors, and get moving.
I'm just a guy who learned from a lot of mistakes I made with women in the past. So I'm more like a "highly functional" type that can score once in a while.
My point is, I don't think this is a condition to be "cured." You just manage it or treat it as you go.
You might never be the same as a (natural) guy that had girls after him since day 1. That's ok.
It's not about any of that. It's about building a life that makes you happy by trying new things until you find things you are passionate about AND improving yourself. The right woman might come along or she might not. That's not under your direct control.
Otherwise, it's like a script/routine in your head that NEVER ends, "What's wrong with me? Why do women hate me? Why do they consider me so different/weird/unattractive as compared to other guys?"
This stupid infinite loop recording can play in your head for YEARS if you let it while your life goes nowhere.
Focus on YOU. If you have the opportunity to score here and there along this journey, cool. But don't put your life or happiness on hold worrying about what some kum-dumpsters think of you.
Remember, your train is leaving. Women can get on board with you or be left at station. It's their choice. Don't be left at the station trying to pick them up either. Get on board, close the doors, and get moving.
plate's_empty
Senior Don Juan
Don't focus on girls then, focus on you. Get grounded, find yourself, become comfortable with who you are. Once you're comfortable in your own skin, your confidence will improve, and you'll be happier. Girls will start to notice.
Then Find a niche. Not everything works for everybody. A start will be to find someone with similar interests, an equal. Someone where you can start out with what comes natural and sprinkle in some game here or there. Then build off it.
Then Find a niche. Not everything works for everybody. A start will be to find someone with similar interests, an equal. Someone where you can start out with what comes natural and sprinkle in some game here or there. Then build off it.
Megaman XIV
Senior Don Juan
Disregard females, get money.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.