SeymourCake
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I'm tired of living this way.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Women are the greatest gift to man, but the worst curse to me
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Women are wh0res, and get used to the reality of dying alone or settling with a girl that's rid the c0ck carousel.
Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
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I never fully "cured" this women problem that has plagued me since the beginning.
I'm just a guy who learned from a lot of mistakes I made with women in the past. So I'm more like a "highly functional" type that can score once in a while.
My point is, I don't think this is a condition to be "cured." You just manage it or treat it as you go.
You might never be the same as a (natural) guy that had girls after him since day 1. That's ok.
It's not about any of that. It's about building a life that makes you happy by trying new things until you find things you are passionate about AND improving yourself. The right woman might come along or she might not. That's not under your direct control.
Otherwise, it's like a script/routine in your head that NEVER ends, "What's wrong with me? Why do women hate me? Why do they consider me so different/weird/unattractive as compared to other guys?"
This stupid infinite loop recording can play in your head for YEARS if you let it while your life goes nowhere.
Focus on YOU. If you have the opportunity to score here and there along this journey, cool. But don't put your life or happiness on hold worrying about what some kum-dumpsters think of you.
Remember, your train is leaving. Women can get on board with you or be left at station. It's their choice. Don't be left at the station trying to pick them up either. Get on board, close the doors, and get moving.
I'm just a guy who learned from a lot of mistakes I made with women in the past. So I'm more like a "highly functional" type that can score once in a while.
My point is, I don't think this is a condition to be "cured." You just manage it or treat it as you go.
You might never be the same as a (natural) guy that had girls after him since day 1. That's ok.
It's not about any of that. It's about building a life that makes you happy by trying new things until you find things you are passionate about AND improving yourself. The right woman might come along or she might not. That's not under your direct control.
Otherwise, it's like a script/routine in your head that NEVER ends, "What's wrong with me? Why do women hate me? Why do they consider me so different/weird/unattractive as compared to other guys?"
This stupid infinite loop recording can play in your head for YEARS if you let it while your life goes nowhere.
Focus on YOU. If you have the opportunity to score here and there along this journey, cool. But don't put your life or happiness on hold worrying about what some kum-dumpsters think of you.
Remember, your train is leaving. Women can get on board with you or be left at station. It's their choice. Don't be left at the station trying to pick them up either. Get on board, close the doors, and get moving.
plate's_empty
Senior Don Juan
Don't focus on girls then, focus on you. Get grounded, find yourself, become comfortable with who you are. Once you're comfortable in your own skin, your confidence will improve, and you'll be happier. Girls will start to notice.
Then Find a niche. Not everything works for everybody. A start will be to find someone with similar interests, an equal. Someone where you can start out with what comes natural and sprinkle in some game here or there. Then build off it.
Then Find a niche. Not everything works for everybody. A start will be to find someone with similar interests, an equal. Someone where you can start out with what comes natural and sprinkle in some game here or there. Then build off it.
Megaman XIV
Senior Don Juan
Disregard females, get money.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.