Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Women are over powered!

Ganondorf

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i mean really, all they have to do is be hot and shake their butt and they can have any loser they want do anything for them
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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but most guys will do anything for them so they get that power and can do it some more...
 

Tha Realnezz

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Pretty much to be honest with you....
 

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Ganondorf said:
i mean really, all they have to do is be hot and shake their butt and they can have any loser they want do anything for them
Yeah... but if a girl is not hot at all she's got it worse than any guy. Think about it. How many average/ugly girls have you seen with DJs? Sure if you're hot the men are gonna be all over you, but if you're not, you'll have to make a lot of the first moves. And that is just awkward.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ganondorf said:
i mean really, all they have to do is be hot and shake their butt and they can have any loser they want do anything for them
I guess Zelda isn't treating you so well. Don't let her get you down. You also gota watch out for Link. He might steal her away.
 

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Yesterday afternoon, I saw an SUV with the following in 3" high pink letters on the back windshield: "This is mine. He just pays for it."
 

Mr Autobahn

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Ganondorf said:
i mean really, all they have to do is be hot and shake their butt and they can have any loser they want do anything for them
So? Women are still not qualified to judge you...
 

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Oh yeah, we're stating the obvious here,

Back when I was still at school the aspiration of the majority of the girls in my Modern Studies class was to "Marry Millionaires". There's a huge amount of leeching of success and gold digging which is obviously due to control over easily manipulated AFC's.
 

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It's sad but true,(Man. and I didn't think is was that bad Charming.) the first thing real guys have to learn is to tell hot women "no". It stings at first, but the more you do it, the more easy it becomes. You'll lose a couple this way, but the trick is to have them invest something in you so they don't run like rabbits the second you give them that 'NO'.

And if they do run, then then who cares? She didn't like you for you to begin with. (Harder said then done.)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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it is a double edged sword. Hot women posses power over most men with only their beauty. The other side of the coin is ugly/ fat women posses no power what so ever. The same goes for women who are beyond their prime. Most women are too short sighted to realize this. History has a few exceptions such as Wu Chao who actually knew their power with their youth and Beauty were ephemeral , and secured their place in the history books with some pretty ruthless tactices.

From my experience, women change after college. Once they start realizing their looks aren't getting better, and their jobs suck ( face it , most average girls from average colleges aren't working at NASA), they start to lose that power they had in college. Its much easier to live on daddys credit card, than with their mediocre hourly job paying rent in some shanty.
 
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