Borknagar
Master Don Juan
it can turn into something more. Women are ****ed in the head, stop going after one girl, too much of this **** on here. No matter how good things are going with a chick, game new ones, **** new ones. etc etc seriously!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Women are only worth one thing, keep spinning plates, even if your lay seems like ...
- Thread starter Borknagar
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Alex DeLarge
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This can definitely be effective, but who knows.. You could meet a dream girl who actually isn't a ***** for once, and she might get sick of you going out with other girls.
Not really a DJ mindset here, but just throwing that out there for the guys looking for LTRs.
Not really a DJ mindset here, but just throwing that out there for the guys looking for LTRs.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Bork mate what the fucc is this ****? seriously man I'm not saying you ain't telling the truth but lets be real, bar skanks at Downtown aren't wifey material lol
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Seems like Borknagar just had a "Eureka!" moment. A lot of you seriously need to drop the fairy tale that one day by some cosmic chance you'll finally bump into "the one" and all the stars will shine brighter and the planets will align. Be realistic and at least be aware that an OVERWHELMING majority of women have absolutely no business being in a "commitment" in the first place. I don't mean to sound sinister but in these times there is no point in trying to find a wife. Those days are done so take it for what it is. It's OVER. And many of you also need stop basing your sense of self worth on women. It's utterly ridiculous.
Seems like Borknagar just had a "Eureka!" moment. A lot of you seriously need to drop the fairy tale that one day by some cosmic chance you'll finally bump into "the one" and all the stars will shine brighter and the planets will align. Be realistic and at least be aware that an OVERWHELMING majority of women have absolutely no business being in a "commitment" in the first place. I don't mean to sound sinister but in these times there is no point in trying to find a wife. Those days are done so take it for what it is. It's OVER. And many of you also need stop basing your sense of self worth on women. It's utterly ridiculous.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
I don't disagree with you at all, but I do wanna add that while majority of women have no business being in relationships there also tons of women who are "relationship worthy". Trust me mate there still good women their while "quality" is a subjective term, there are out there. The biggest mistake the average PUA/Don Juan makes is going to bars/clubs hoping to meet a "quality" girl. I know what the OP is going through, we have hit the field together, and discuss were we at with "The Game" all the time. I'm pretty sure that I don't have to spell out the obvious that women are very fickle (one day your banging them next day she isn't picking up). I know for a fact when I was on top of my game I was meeting various women that I didn't have access before. If you step your game up(or better yet your life) you will meet better women as well. What's the point of learning game if your just gonna be dealing with low quality broads? Being aware is great hence you have standards if a women doesn't meet them you shouldn't be dealing with them in the first place!C-quenced said:
http://sosuave.net/forum/archive/index.php/t-162156.html
^^this thread explains it a bit better then I could
Just my thoughts
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Borknagar
Master Don Juan
haha dude you know how I've been feeling about women lately. Very true about chicks downtown, but I've noticed the same applies to women on pof, at the coffee shop, at the restaurant, meet via friends, grocery store, and heck probably even church! I think it applies to all women these days.Solomon said: