Borknagar
Master Don Juan
it can turn into something more. Women are ****ed in the head, stop going after one girl, too much of this **** on here. No matter how good things are going with a chick, game new ones, **** new ones. etc etc seriously!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Women are only worth one thing, keep spinning plates, even if your lay seems like ...
- Thread starter Borknagar
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Alex DeLarge
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This can definitely be effective, but who knows.. You could meet a dream girl who actually isn't a ***** for once, and she might get sick of you going out with other girls.
Not really a DJ mindset here, but just throwing that out there for the guys looking for LTRs.
Not really a DJ mindset here, but just throwing that out there for the guys looking for LTRs.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Bork mate what the fucc is this ****? seriously man I'm not saying you ain't telling the truth but lets be real, bar skanks at Downtown aren't wifey material lol
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Seems like Borknagar just had a "Eureka!" moment. A lot of you seriously need to drop the fairy tale that one day by some cosmic chance you'll finally bump into "the one" and all the stars will shine brighter and the planets will align. Be realistic and at least be aware that an OVERWHELMING majority of women have absolutely no business being in a "commitment" in the first place. I don't mean to sound sinister but in these times there is no point in trying to find a wife. Those days are done so take it for what it is. It's OVER. And many of you also need stop basing your sense of self worth on women. It's utterly ridiculous.
Seems like Borknagar just had a "Eureka!" moment. A lot of you seriously need to drop the fairy tale that one day by some cosmic chance you'll finally bump into "the one" and all the stars will shine brighter and the planets will align. Be realistic and at least be aware that an OVERWHELMING majority of women have absolutely no business being in a "commitment" in the first place. I don't mean to sound sinister but in these times there is no point in trying to find a wife. Those days are done so take it for what it is. It's OVER. And many of you also need stop basing your sense of self worth on women. It's utterly ridiculous.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
I don't disagree with you at all, but I do wanna add that while majority of women have no business being in relationships there also tons of women who are "relationship worthy". Trust me mate there still good women their while "quality" is a subjective term, there are out there. The biggest mistake the average PUA/Don Juan makes is going to bars/clubs hoping to meet a "quality" girl. I know what the OP is going through, we have hit the field together, and discuss were we at with "The Game" all the time. I'm pretty sure that I don't have to spell out the obvious that women are very fickle (one day your banging them next day she isn't picking up). I know for a fact when I was on top of my game I was meeting various women that I didn't have access before. If you step your game up(or better yet your life) you will meet better women as well. What's the point of learning game if your just gonna be dealing with low quality broads? Being aware is great hence you have standards if a women doesn't meet them you shouldn't be dealing with them in the first place!C-quenced said:
http://sosuave.net/forum/archive/index.php/t-162156.html
^^this thread explains it a bit better then I could
Just my thoughts
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Borknagar
Master Don Juan
haha dude you know how I've been feeling about women lately. Very true about chicks downtown, but I've noticed the same applies to women on pof, at the coffee shop, at the restaurant, meet via friends, grocery store, and heck probably even church! I think it applies to all women these days.Solomon said: