I dated a women for a couple months earlier this year and a average looking women but in the ball park of what I'm looking for but just didn't have her life together so I let her go. I do some online dating and I went out with a occupational therapist, nice looking girl and I thought everything went great but she said the chemistry wasen't there. Went out with a 8 I met online and on the second I went to her house and watch a movie, ended up making out with her and sucking on her titties but wouldn't let me get any further then that cause she said she liked me and didn't want me to ruin it. She goes away on a trip and decides she wanted to get back together with her ex. I met a very attractive brunette a 9 at a grocery store, talked to her for a bit and asked her out. I was really excited about this one she fit everything I was looking for on the outside but after going out for the first time to see if we're compatible, within ten minutes of sitting down she starting looking away alot and was very figity. she acidentally kicked me 6 six times under the table lol. she had the get me the **** out of here look to her eyes but later said she just felt awkward. I don't know anymore this women are driving me crazy. I"m 31 and in college at the moment getting my nursing degree. I wish the right one would come into my life already, Its been my dream of mine to have wife and kids for so long. Feel like I'm chasing a hopeless dream, sometimes I feel like settling for what I can get lol. To think of it I have to work with a bunch of nutty ass women after I'm done school for the rest of my life aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh shoot me now!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Women are nuts!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Cause we're in America dude. They're almost all nuts, with their cellphones, they speak 100,000 more words than we do a day. Of course, they're nuts. Talking over thinking. Our job is to get them to start sucking over thinking. It should be easy. They're doh-doh birds, fvcking weird with their genitals on the inside. I'd be nuts if I didn't have a d!ck too.
It's all a numbers game. Keep it up it sounds like you're doing the right thing: approaching, asking out etc.
I find it's about every 10 girls I date that I find ONE that is compatible with me relationship wise.
Of course that varies, but the point is that you probably won't find a girl that is compatible with you right off the bat. It's just the way it goes.
Of course you can tighten up your game so that you sleep with more of these women that you date, but your game can't change who they really are inside.
Tighter game = more lays, and more women to choose from. So the benefit is two-fold. One, you're having more sex, and two, if you're approaching more women, odds are you'll find a compatible one sooner.
So I would say you're doing good, just look at your game with a critical eye and try to improve it.
I find it's about every 10 girls I date that I find ONE that is compatible with me relationship wise.
Of course that varies, but the point is that you probably won't find a girl that is compatible with you right off the bat. It's just the way it goes.
Of course you can tighten up your game so that you sleep with more of these women that you date, but your game can't change who they really are inside.
Tighter game = more lays, and more women to choose from. So the benefit is two-fold. One, you're having more sex, and two, if you're approaching more women, odds are you'll find a compatible one sooner.
So I would say you're doing good, just look at your game with a critical eye and try to improve it.
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yup they are nuts and many men are fing them just make sure you are one of them
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.