I dated a women for a couple months earlier this year and a average looking women but in the ball park of what I'm looking for but just didn't have her life together so I let her go. I do some online dating and I went out with a occupational therapist, nice looking girl and I thought everything went great but she said the chemistry wasen't there. Went out with a 8 I met online and on the second I went to her house and watch a movie, ended up making out with her and sucking on her titties but wouldn't let me get any further then that cause she said she liked me and didn't want me to ruin it. She goes away on a trip and decides she wanted to get back together with her ex. I met a very attractive brunette a 9 at a grocery store, talked to her for a bit and asked her out. I was really excited about this one she fit everything I was looking for on the outside but after going out for the first time to see if we're compatible, within ten minutes of sitting down she starting looking away alot and was very figity. she acidentally kicked me 6 six times under the table lol. she had the get me the **** out of here look to her eyes but later said she just felt awkward. I don't know anymore this women are driving me crazy. I"m 31 and in college at the moment getting my nursing degree. I wish the right one would come into my life already, Its been my dream of mine to have wife and kids for so long. Feel like I'm chasing a hopeless dream, sometimes I feel like settling for what I can get lol. To think of it I have to work with a bunch of nutty ass women after I'm done school for the rest of my life aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh shoot me now!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Women are nuts!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Poonani Maker
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Cause we're in America dude. They're almost all nuts, with their cellphones, they speak 100,000 more words than we do a day. Of course, they're nuts. Talking over thinking. Our job is to get them to start sucking over thinking. It should be easy. They're doh-doh birds, fvcking weird with their genitals on the inside. I'd be nuts if I didn't have a d!ck too.
It's all a numbers game. Keep it up it sounds like you're doing the right thing: approaching, asking out etc.
I find it's about every 10 girls I date that I find ONE that is compatible with me relationship wise.
Of course that varies, but the point is that you probably won't find a girl that is compatible with you right off the bat. It's just the way it goes.
Of course you can tighten up your game so that you sleep with more of these women that you date, but your game can't change who they really are inside.
Tighter game = more lays, and more women to choose from. So the benefit is two-fold. One, you're having more sex, and two, if you're approaching more women, odds are you'll find a compatible one sooner.
So I would say you're doing good, just look at your game with a critical eye and try to improve it.
I find it's about every 10 girls I date that I find ONE that is compatible with me relationship wise.
Of course that varies, but the point is that you probably won't find a girl that is compatible with you right off the bat. It's just the way it goes.
Of course you can tighten up your game so that you sleep with more of these women that you date, but your game can't change who they really are inside.
Tighter game = more lays, and more women to choose from. So the benefit is two-fold. One, you're having more sex, and two, if you're approaching more women, odds are you'll find a compatible one sooner.
So I would say you're doing good, just look at your game with a critical eye and try to improve it.
DonGorgon
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yup they are nuts and many men are fing them just make sure you are one of them
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.