"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women are monogamous

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Women are monogamous.
They are faithful to only one man at a time.
Women are not hypergamous.
But this can happen:
While she's already in a relationship with someone, and she feels "special" in the presence of another man, she becomes "hypergamous."

Perhaps his beauty, height, money, or status can make her rationalize the fact that she "feels good" in the presence of this man.
But that's not all.

Beyond all this, the man she feels "best" with, becomes her monogamous choice.
Women make an investment.
For us men, it's different.

I'd like to talk more about this "making her feel good."
I think it's very much about how you make others feel, not just women.
These are qualities you possess to make others feel appreciated, heard, and seen.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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@jhonny9546 "i think it's very much about how you make others feel, not just women"

Bingo!!!

Insofar as this hypergamy talk goes: A man pursues high-paying employment and greater access to resources for HIMSELF, first and foremost. Women are just a byproduct of achieving those goals. Unless a broad puts a entire clip .45 into your chest then refers to that as "a break-up", life still has to go on, after she/they depart
 

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Id like to believe that it really depends on the culture or in a lot of cases, environment where the women is from and where she's situated to be the case. Chances are you need to learn the art of screening for a good quality woman and this type of drama would not occur in the relationship in the first place. The Art of screening is something we should all be talking about more often in here.
 

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Id like to believe that it really depends on the culture or in a lot of cases, environment where the women is from and where she's situated to be the case. Chances are you need to learn the art of screening for a good quality woman and this type of drama would not occur in the relationship in the first place. The Art of screening is something we should all be talking about more often in here.
Okay.

Explain what's the process of screening. Imo it's actually the exact opposite; everyone is saying you should screen better but imo it's just buzzwords.

People ( women are People surprisingly I know) can change. Overnight. On top of that everyone has his / her representatives that rather show up than the " real busted version" of themselves.
So how you gonna screen? Aks her if she has a good relationship with papa? And then it's all good?

Finally: a fat ugly woman can and sometimes will be the best woman you can have, BUT she will most definitely do all she can to make sure you won't have the ability to chase some young fine tail...She'll know she's fat and has excuses, but she will definitely keep you away from the market. And she mohjr compensate by making you sandwiches in the morning for work....whoopdie dooh...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Okay.

Explain what's the process of screening. Imo it's actually the exact opposite; everyone is saying you should screen better but imo it's just buzzwords.

People ( women are People surprisingly I know) can change. Overnight. On top of that everyone has his / her representatives that rather show up than the " real busted version" of themselves.
So how you gonna screen? Aks her if she has a good relationship with papa? And then it's all good?

Finally: a fat ugly woman can and sometimes will be the best woman you can have, BUT she will most definitely do all she can to make sure you won't have the ability to chase some young fine tail...She'll know she's fat and has excuses, but she will definitely keep you away from the market. And she mohjr compensate by making you sandwiches in the morning for work....whoopdie dooh...
There’s a wise quote from Pook, you can tell a lot about a woman’s character by how she treats those who can do nothing for her. You want to vet a woman’s character during times when they’re faced with challenges, boredom or in times when things are getting chaotic. You want a woman who has good relationships or not bitter towards family members, that’s important or she’ll take it out on you. These are things you’ll notice after several months of courtship/dating her.
 
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