"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women are last on my list, which is good, but unfortunately leads to less opportunity

JaegerPilot217

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skinnyguy said:
I agree with you man…I'm very well educated and have a good career…yet I'm seeing women pick douchebags with no money over me. At the end of the day, the dating game only comes down to one thing: looks. You could be a millionaire and still not be getting laid because you're not good looking. Most guys are on SOS because they aren't good looking and don't know what to do with themselves. If I were a broke high school dropout who had muscles and tattoos, I would be scoring left and right.
Now I'm just trying to stop feeling regretful about the past
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is insane talk...DUDE YOU ARE 25!!!! You have your whole life ahead of you...

I'm 25 and I can't wait to hit 30-35 region. Heck even at age 45-50 is an exciting thought. This is because YOU AS A MAN will always continue to grow if you are open to it.

Your problem is that your like every other man who is a ****ing schemer and SELFISH worried about themselves. All I heard is...
- I want a girlfriend
- I can't get girls
- Other guys are getting more women than I
- Ejecting early if things aren't going your way

NOT ONCE, have you even mentioned the idea of having memorable shared experiences with women. You say you have "lots to offer", what superficially? You need to change your outlook and actually focus on blowing off some steam from such a massive workload. Celebrate your life and bring people into that passion for life. HAVE FUN!!!

To many guys, put too much emphasis on "female validation" to the point that it holds them back in ways that they're unaware of.

To put things in perspective, I'm pretty sure you make more money than me BUT one thing I know 100% is that the level of understanding that I have about the fact that "I can drastically change a woman's life". Thing is, it has nothing to do with the materials, it's me knowing if she meets me it will potentially be the best times of her life for the "time period" that we know each other.

This is because I focus on actually living an enjoyable life, I want to bring people into it to feel what I feel on a daily basis.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
This is insane talk...DUDE YOU ARE 25!!!! You have your whole life ahead of you...

I'm 25 and I can't wait to hit 30-35 region. Heck even at age 45-50 is an exciting thought. This is because YOU AS A MAN will always continue to grow if you are open to it.

Your problem is that your like every other man who is a ****ing schemer and SELFISH worried about themselves. All I heard is...
- I want a girlfriend
- I can't get girls
- Other guys are getting more women than I
- Ejecting early if things aren't going your way

NOT ONCE, have you even mentioned the idea of having memorable shared experiences with women. You say you have "lots to offer", what superficially? You need to change your outlook and actually focus on blowing off some steam from such a massive workload. Celebrate your life and bring people into that passion for life. HAVE FUN!!!

To many guys, put too much emphasis on "female validation" to the point that it holds them back in ways that they're unaware of.

To put things in perspective, I'm pretty sure you make more money than me BUT one thing I know 100% is that the level of understanding that I have about the fact that "I can drastically change a woman's life". Thing is, it has nothing to do with the materials, it's me knowing if she meets me it will potentially be the best times of her life for the "time period" that we know each other.

This is because I focus on actually living an enjoyable life, I want to bring people into it to feel what I feel on a daily basis.
What's wrong with ejecting early if I find out she's in a seriously relationship? Wouldn't I want to have those shared memorable experiences with single women? The more time I spend on women who aren't available, the less time I have for single women.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
This is insane talk...DUDE YOU ARE 25!!!! You have your whole life ahead of you...

I'm 25 and I can't wait to hit 30-35 region. Heck even at age 45-50 is an exciting thought. This is because YOU AS A MAN will always continue to grow if you are open to it.

Your problem is that your like every other man who is a ****ing schemer and SELFISH worried about themselves. All I heard is...
- I want a girlfriend
- I can't get girls
- Other guys are getting more women than I
- Ejecting early if things aren't going your way

NOT ONCE, have you even mentioned the idea of having memorable shared experiences with women. You say you have "lots to offer", what superficially? You need to change your outlook and actually focus on blowing off some steam from such a massive workload. Celebrate your life and bring people into that passion for life. HAVE FUN!!!

To many guys, put too much emphasis on "female validation" to the point that it holds them back in ways that they're unaware of.

To put things in perspective, I'm pretty sure you make more money than me BUT one thing I know 100% is that the level of understanding that I have about the fact that "I can drastically change a woman's life". Thing is, it has nothing to do with the materials, it's me knowing if she meets me it will potentially be the best times of her life for the "time period" that we know each other.

This is because I focus on actually living an enjoyable life, I want to bring people into it to feel what I feel on a daily basis.
Even though us guys age better than women, our sexual prime years are in our teens and early to mid 20's, it feels we have wasted them
 

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As in we don't have as powerful cumshots or grasms once we guys reach our 20's as compared to our teens and early 20's right?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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