"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Women are last on my list, which is good, but unfortunately leads to less opportunity

JaegerPilot217

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skinnyguy said:
I agree with you man…I'm very well educated and have a good career…yet I'm seeing women pick douchebags with no money over me. At the end of the day, the dating game only comes down to one thing: looks. You could be a millionaire and still not be getting laid because you're not good looking. Most guys are on SOS because they aren't good looking and don't know what to do with themselves. If I were a broke high school dropout who had muscles and tattoos, I would be scoring left and right.
Now I'm just trying to stop feeling regretful about the past
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is insane talk...DUDE YOU ARE 25!!!! You have your whole life ahead of you...

I'm 25 and I can't wait to hit 30-35 region. Heck even at age 45-50 is an exciting thought. This is because YOU AS A MAN will always continue to grow if you are open to it.

Your problem is that your like every other man who is a ****ing schemer and SELFISH worried about themselves. All I heard is...
- I want a girlfriend
- I can't get girls
- Other guys are getting more women than I
- Ejecting early if things aren't going your way

NOT ONCE, have you even mentioned the idea of having memorable shared experiences with women. You say you have "lots to offer", what superficially? You need to change your outlook and actually focus on blowing off some steam from such a massive workload. Celebrate your life and bring people into that passion for life. HAVE FUN!!!

To many guys, put too much emphasis on "female validation" to the point that it holds them back in ways that they're unaware of.

To put things in perspective, I'm pretty sure you make more money than me BUT one thing I know 100% is that the level of understanding that I have about the fact that "I can drastically change a woman's life". Thing is, it has nothing to do with the materials, it's me knowing if she meets me it will potentially be the best times of her life for the "time period" that we know each other.

This is because I focus on actually living an enjoyable life, I want to bring people into it to feel what I feel on a daily basis.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
This is insane talk...DUDE YOU ARE 25!!!! You have your whole life ahead of you...

I'm 25 and I can't wait to hit 30-35 region. Heck even at age 45-50 is an exciting thought. This is because YOU AS A MAN will always continue to grow if you are open to it.

Your problem is that your like every other man who is a ****ing schemer and SELFISH worried about themselves. All I heard is...
- I want a girlfriend
- I can't get girls
- Other guys are getting more women than I
- Ejecting early if things aren't going your way

NOT ONCE, have you even mentioned the idea of having memorable shared experiences with women. You say you have "lots to offer", what superficially? You need to change your outlook and actually focus on blowing off some steam from such a massive workload. Celebrate your life and bring people into that passion for life. HAVE FUN!!!

To many guys, put too much emphasis on "female validation" to the point that it holds them back in ways that they're unaware of.

To put things in perspective, I'm pretty sure you make more money than me BUT one thing I know 100% is that the level of understanding that I have about the fact that "I can drastically change a woman's life". Thing is, it has nothing to do with the materials, it's me knowing if she meets me it will potentially be the best times of her life for the "time period" that we know each other.

This is because I focus on actually living an enjoyable life, I want to bring people into it to feel what I feel on a daily basis.
What's wrong with ejecting early if I find out she's in a seriously relationship? Wouldn't I want to have those shared memorable experiences with single women? The more time I spend on women who aren't available, the less time I have for single women.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
This is insane talk...DUDE YOU ARE 25!!!! You have your whole life ahead of you...

I'm 25 and I can't wait to hit 30-35 region. Heck even at age 45-50 is an exciting thought. This is because YOU AS A MAN will always continue to grow if you are open to it.

Your problem is that your like every other man who is a ****ing schemer and SELFISH worried about themselves. All I heard is...
- I want a girlfriend
- I can't get girls
- Other guys are getting more women than I
- Ejecting early if things aren't going your way

NOT ONCE, have you even mentioned the idea of having memorable shared experiences with women. You say you have "lots to offer", what superficially? You need to change your outlook and actually focus on blowing off some steam from such a massive workload. Celebrate your life and bring people into that passion for life. HAVE FUN!!!

To many guys, put too much emphasis on "female validation" to the point that it holds them back in ways that they're unaware of.

To put things in perspective, I'm pretty sure you make more money than me BUT one thing I know 100% is that the level of understanding that I have about the fact that "I can drastically change a woman's life". Thing is, it has nothing to do with the materials, it's me knowing if she meets me it will potentially be the best times of her life for the "time period" that we know each other.

This is because I focus on actually living an enjoyable life, I want to bring people into it to feel what I feel on a daily basis.
Even though us guys age better than women, our sexual prime years are in our teens and early to mid 20's, it feels we have wasted them
 

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As in we don't have as powerful cumshots or grasms once we guys reach our 20's as compared to our teens and early 20's right?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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