"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women are just too hard to please, and I'm kind of a boring guy soo...

Poonani Maker

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I think I'm just gonna Settle for the ones who want me the most. There have been 3 most recently, one of which, practically Worships me. My dad told me that's how he always did it - he just accepted the ones who wanted him most. He's divorced twice even, but at least both marriages to my brothers' mom and to my mom were both 10 and 19 years each. He just took in who ever came alone and wanted him. 1st being the beauty queen of his high school, 2nd being my pretty good-looking mom.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Whatever puts the olive in your martini..
As long as you still get laid in your conquest I see no meaning in this thread..
 

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I think every guy that is disappointed with his options will reach that crossroad. He'll have to decide to do what it takes to get a higher caliber of woman, or take the path of least resistance and settle for whatever fly lands on his web.
 

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I know I'm much younger than you, but I have good advice to give nevertheless. You're not your dad.

You seem confused where you stand on the matter, and you shouldn't make such a life-changing decision based on someone elses decisions.

You say you're boring? It's never too late to do some soul searching. I recommend buying Ross Jeffries' tapes to gain more psychological insight.

If you're going to try to settle down and raise children with someone, you need to be sure that you love her. If you have a crisis and feel like you made a mistake, be sure you're willing to put your children through the emotional and mental trauma that ensues.
 

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You're boring?

Try watching stand up comedy and hanging around interesting/funny people. There are more problems that can follow you in life other than just not sleeping with alot of girls -- if you don't motivate yourself to be a more interesting person.

The thing is I'm new to this forum and I don't know the posters very well.... but this thread seems to be DRIPPING with satire.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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its not THAT hard. sure relationships do take time but if you plan it out it's easier to deal with. check the tips section on my relationship post. People think that relationships are just two people joining together but ultimately the relationship itself is a burden that you have to carry as well as your own baggage and your significant others.
 
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