Women are hypocrites

[joey2times]

Just an observation, but how many times have you heard that women don't place as much emphasis on looks as men? That women are much more inclined to be attracted to your personality than vice versa?

If that's so, how come you see these BBW(Big Beautiful Women) sites all over the internet, but none for fat guys? It seems that some men are more than happy to entertain the thought of rolling around in the hay with these HOGS, but women don't seem to reciprocate? If women aren't into looks as much as men, why don't they flock in droves to fat guys with great personalities?

We all know that looks matter, and there's nothing wrong with that. My issue is that women are just as shallow as us guys, yet we're the ones being told all we look for is T and A.

 

[iqqi]

You are confusing all that with insecurity.

Women are more insecure with weight issues than men. Those sites are designed to make women feel better about being fat.

 

[ketostix]

Lol no iqqi. Women are hypocritics. One of the cardinal rules of DJs is we don't pay credence to what they say, only what they do. The truth is women are if anything more shallow than men.

 

[iqqi]

One of the cardinal rules of DJs ...

LOL!!! You younguns are so cute!

I wish they had a pinching cheek emoticon on this site!

 

[Rex Man]

Yes, women are hypocrites. So what? Fact is, these fat @sses are still getting laid. But I don't even care about that. What's strange to me is when these.....'bbws' say they want a good-looking man with a NICE BODY!

They're fooling themselves, just like 75% or so people on this site. Seems to me people want the goods without doing what it takes to get there.

Actually, my reply has nothing to do with your post. But then again, you didn't really ask a question!

 

[ketostix]

Uh just how old are you if you think 28 is a youngin? Every where I go out I'm the older guy despiute looking younger than my age. I might actually be a couple years older than 28 but I don't see that it matters since I'm obviously over 25

 

[iqqi]

Didn't notice your age. Damn, then its not even cute!

 

[FutureSpartan]

Lol no iqqi. Women are hypocritics. One of the cardinal rules of DJs is we don't pay credence to what they say, only what they do. The truth is women are if anything more shallow than men.

I agree. An attractive physical appearance can get your foot in the door with most attractive women. Think about it, they sit and watch that VH1 and MTV crap all day fantasizing about living the Hollywood life, the last thing they want is their friends finding out they are dating some "charming" average schlub.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

The OP has a point; you don't see dating sites catering to BBM (big beautiful men). How many in-shape women have you encountered who have a fat guy fetish? For that matter, how many fat women have a fat guy fetish? How many (heterosexual) websites are dedicated to the appreciation of grossly overweight men?

You see, it's a "fetish" if a man appreciates it, but it's normal for women.

 

[DJDamage]

If that's so, how come you see these BBW(Big Beautiful Women) sites all over the internet, but none for fat guys? It seems that some men are more than happy to entertain the thought of rolling around in the hay with these HOGS,

AFCness is a rampant in our society. I have never met a normal dude who was into BBW. No guy in his right mind will choose a fit girl over fatty one. Guys who go for BBW do so because it is an easier lay. A BBW will treat an AFC pretty good since she herself has few oppertuinities and since AFC's don't know any better, they will choose BBWs.

Its a vicious cycle. Today's modern women are fatter then ever and because there are so many AFC's out there then ever, they are able to sell BBW to the masses as "Big beautiful Woman" rather then what it should really be called "BIG BEACHED WHALE".

The funny thing about it is now BBW's are starting to get the attitude of HB's and walk around with self-entitlment attitude because they are finding more and more desperate men who would put them on the pedestal due to this "fetish". I snicker every time i hear a fat cow saying "the man i was seeing rejected me because he couldn't handle a BBW such as myself, I need to find a real man who can handle a real woman" lol.

 

[Rex Man]

I have never met a normal dude who was into BBW

Believe me, they're out there. My stepbrother makes good money and has a pretty cool persona. He's no Rex Man :rockon: , but he has a decent pick. He likes him big though . I guess it's how some guys like tall girls (I don't), it boils down to personal tastes. I try not to sh!t on peoples taste, hell, it doesn't effect me either way.

The funny thing about it is now BBW's are starting to get the attitude of HB's and walk around with self-entitlment attitude because they are finding more and more desperate men who would put them on the pedestal due to this "fetish". I snicker every time i hear a fat cow saying "the man i was seeing rejected me because he couldn't handle a BBW such as myself, I need to find a real man who can handle a real woman" lol.

Oh......so.......true.

 

[MindAtEase]

I think it's because some dudes really are attracted to fat chicks. Women aren't really "attracted" to fat dudes. Unless that fat dude has power, money, or a wicked sense of humor. Men, however, genuinely love the fat girls. Or else, this BBW porn wouldn't be so huge. No pun intended, of course.

 

[ketostix]

I think it's because there are some women that are attracted to fat dudes or insert X type dudes, but because fat dudes don't have as much social status they won't act on it.

 

[Bigdavis]

I can give my 2 cents. I used to be really fat and I've lost a bunch of weight. I can definitely say that with each 10 to 20 lbs I lost I would get more and more attention from women. I'm down to 250 right now and I can't wait to see what the next 30 to 40 lbs will hold...

I never liked BBW's but that was all I could get when I was fat and it was always like we were "settling" for each other. I got tired of settling so I made changes.

 

[DonJuan11]

Men, however, genuinely love the fat girls.

There are so many things wrong with that statement I don't know where to begin!

 

[MindAtEase]

There are so many things wrong with that statement I don't know where to begin!

I meant some, man, SOME. Context! Context!

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Just an observation, but how many times have you heard that women don't place as much emphasis on looks as men? That women are much more inclined to be attracted to your personality than vice versa?

If that's so, how come you see these BBW(Big Beautiful Women) sites all over the internet, but none for fat guys? It seems that some men are more than happy to entertain the thought of rolling around in the hay with these HOGS, but women don't seem to reciprocate? If women aren't into looks as much as men, why don't they flock in droves to fat guys with great personalities?

We all know that looks matter, and there's nothing wrong with that. My issue is that women are just as shallow as us guys, yet we're the ones being told all we look for is T and A.

You're just now learning this?

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

I should also add that there ARE plenty of dating sites that specialize in setting up women with rich men.

How to spot a rich guy

 

[ketostix]

Thanks for the reminder of that RT

 

[potato]

I don’t know where that whole idea about women not being concerned about looks comes from but it definitely isn’t true. It is just that women tend to pay attention to body language a little more than men and read more into it. They’ll say things like, “he looks smart” or “he looks honest” but they are always really saying that they like the way a guy looks.

Typically when I meet a woman who I end up dating, she’ll show interest before I ever say anything to her, some excessively so.

There was one woman who knocked on my door shortly after having moved into an apartment. She explained that she wanted to meet me after her and her friends had spent the previous day watching me and my friends move my stuff into my apartment. If women didn’t care about looks then what were these women doing watching me and my friends?