Women are faithful

[BaronOfHair]

Agree with others that say monogamy isn't natural for either sex. If it were we wouldn't need God and Johnny Law to enforce it

If The Almighty exists, he presumably either

-Designed our species to be anything but monagamous

Or

-Recognized that a craving for multiple partners was a recipe for heartache, yet refused to correct the malfunction

Relying on such a being to now enforce monogamy makes less sense than re-animating Ronald Regan's corpse, then expecting HIM of all people to end The Drug War, or/and roll back the militarization of our police departments. It's up to us advocate for our own desires and needs ultimately

 

[jhonny9546]

have fallen for a lie

This would be a whole topic to discuss.
It's not a lie, it's simply the realization that by living that way, you're a fake.
While being authentic is the true path forward.
Many people reevaluate the fact that pursuing SMV sometimes doesn't "feel good."

But please explain better what you mean. We'd like to better understand your perspective! Feel free to start a topic about this, too; it would be of interest to many here.

If you negatively disrupt their emotions they leave.

This is not the case, what do you mean by negatively impact on her emotion precisely?

experience is the best

Ofc! So you think that if this happens, it's an exception rather than the norm? And that if it happens, the woman is no good?

 

[jhonny9546]

My current girlfriend admitted...

You made me think of something.
There is a girl who fell in love with me during her relationship.
And I think just like you.

The fact is that you cannot believe the woman's feelings, if they are emotions. She may also tell you that she is in love with you, but in reality, she is using you in a relationship triangle, to make her partner get jealous, and therefore invest in the relationship.

There are many reasons...
For your LTR, did you met her before she was engaged, or just right after? (For the first time ever)

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Jhonny,
Yes,most are wired to be faithful.....As a Boy it was the three Maries at Golgotha who made me pause and consider.

 

[jhonny9546]

Hi Jhonny,
Yes,most are wired to be faithful.....As a Boy it was the three Maries at Golgotha who made me pause and consider.

Explain, we'd love to hear more

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Johnie,
Better you go and read your Gospels....Discovery learning is so much more powerful and also personal.

 

[DJ Novice]

I met her before her ex proposed to her (1 week after I met her). They were together for 6 years. I think he had exhausted his options and threw a Hail Mary pass in desperation.

 

[BaronOfHair]

While being authentic is the true path forward.
Many people reevaluate the fact that pursuing SMV sometimes doesn't "feel good."

But please explain better what you mean mean. We'd like to better understand your perspective!

I'll illustrate it...

MGTOWs/most MRAs and the typical Feminist rejoice in being "authentic"... I.E. Becoming morbidly obese, walking around town looking as if they rolled out of bed, rarely shaving or grooming, etc etc. Far too many folks define "authenticity" to mean: "I'm entitled to put minimal effort into myself, and the rest of humanity SHOULD still like and love me, no matter how difficult I make this" Two examples

-The following words, regarding Andrea Dworkin, which are applicable to quite a few Feminists: "Some critics asked Dworkin: Why don’t you lose weight, and be more selective in your sex partners before condemning sex as inherently abusive? Why don’t you leave New York City if you can’t afford a decent apartment there?

Camille Paglia, always a dangerous verbal opponent, said, “Dworkin pretends to be a daring truth-teller but never mentions her most obvious problem, food.”


-The 8th-rate Tom Leykis imitation featured here

and his hanger-on Brule. Both of whom have gone out of their way to embody every stereotype lampooned in the following skit

, yet still find it shocking that clerks and wait staff aren't especially warm towards them

A man has no reasonable expectation of society respecting him, when he doesn't even respect himself, much less anyone being loyal to him

 

[Bokanovsky]

We accept, with minimal fuss, the likelihood that we'll be backstabbed by a colleague, as we move further in our careers. It's baffling that so many of us believe that mating and dating would be any different

I suspect there would be a lot more "fuss" if the backstabbing colleague could take 50%v of everything you own. And keep you from seeing your own kids.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I suspect there would be a lot more "fuss" if the backstabbing colleague could take 50%v of everything you own

Depending upon the severity of the backstabbing, a highly Macchievelian collegue can torpedo your entire career, cost you 100% of your income

While I'm sure we all support measures such as making shared parenting legislation in the event of divorce the law of the land, there will never be a Red Pill Utopia, where loving a woman ISN'T a risk in some form or fashion