"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Women are c@ck-teasers
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Women win just off attention and desire. They cry when they lose an orbiter or friend.
Have any of you motherfückérs cried because a woman won't be your orbiter or in your friendzone? Hell no.
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Its no coincidence that as the number of single mommies has increased, so has the number of desperate pvssy chasers. I've never seen a larger group of such feminized "men" as what we have now.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I had a girl several months back that didn't want to see me any more after several months of dating and her telling me she loved me. In the end, she tried to convert me to an orbiter/friend. When I said "no" she did a complete 180, made out with me on the spot and spent the next two weeks reconsidering. It was almost like she couldn't believe I would say no and it stung a bit when I did.
Had another girl tell me about a guy she worked with that pursued her. They went out twice. She had no intentions of something romantic, but never stated this(of course not!). Eventually he figured out it wasn't going anywhere and quit giving her attention. She got offended and said "no guy has ever rejected me, I can't understand why he wont be my friend, he won't even stop by my desk at work anymore". I tried to explain his actions to her, but she didn't want to even try to understand. It was a blow to her self esteem.
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Men hate losing sex partners as much as women hate losing orbiters. The work woman isn't that attractive. She's just upset she lost a beta ego booster/ orbiter. Props to the guy for moving on. It'll all pass when she invites Chad and Tyrone over after work.