"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Women are c@ck-teasers
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
wifehunter
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I've been accused, on occasion.
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Women win just off attention and desire. They cry when they lose an orbiter or friend.
Have any of you motherfückérs cried because a woman won't be your orbiter or in your friendzone? Hell no.
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Its no coincidence that as the number of single mommies has increased, so has the number of desperate pvssy chasers. I've never seen a larger group of such feminized "men" as what we have now.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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I had a girl several months back that didn't want to see me any more after several months of dating and her telling me she loved me. In the end, she tried to convert me to an orbiter/friend. When I said "no" she did a complete 180, made out with me on the spot and spent the next two weeks reconsidering. It was almost like she couldn't believe I would say no and it stung a bit when I did.
Had another girl tell me about a guy she worked with that pursued her. They went out twice. She had no intentions of something romantic, but never stated this(of course not!). Eventually he figured out it wasn't going anywhere and quit giving her attention. She got offended and said "no guy has ever rejected me, I can't understand why he wont be my friend, he won't even stop by my desk at work anymore". I tried to explain his actions to her, but she didn't want to even try to understand. It was a blow to her self esteem.
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Men hate losing sex partners as much as women hate losing orbiters. The work woman isn't that attractive. She's just upset she lost a beta ego booster/ orbiter. Props to the guy for moving on. It'll all pass when she invites Chad and Tyrone over after work.