"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women are buddy outing ****blocks lol

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Have you guys noticed this? When a buddy is in a relationship and you want to hang out with him in the weekends and if the girlfriend don't know you well or doesn't like you...all she needs to do is express her disapproval and tell him to tell you no? As someone who likes to have a few drinks in the pub or share a few a hobbies with a few gentlemen to bond with, this can be a slight inconvenience. You'll know whose in charge of that relationship right away by the amount of times he can hang out with you and have some fun.
 

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Maybe they should be on TRT because they certainly aren't producing enough Testosterone on their own if they allow a woman to dictate what they can and can't do or who they can or can't see.

There would be a single conversation on that topic and it would be that she is free to leave if she doesn't like who I am spending my time with and if this conversation has to happen again, I will be the one making that decision for her. I have zero tolerance for that any type of bullsh!t like that.

But I don't think I've ever had to have this discussion with a woman. These type of women already know they can control the man before they try it since they intentionally target only those types. I'm not that dude.
 
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I had two friends that had women that didn't care for me. I was too wild, strong, and liked my freedom. I wasn't going to be controlled by some woman.

One would call my buddy up and tell him it was time to come home. Usually it only took 2hours of him being gone. He would comply every time. Before she came along this guy was banging girls left and right, always a good time, and living a great life. Not sure why he married her, but she definitely tells him what he can and can't do. This dude complained about his girl all the time but never put his foot down.

The other friend had a girl he dated for several years. She slowly took control of his life and our relationship. He used to stay with me on weekends, go to $trip clubs together, drink, go to concerts, etc. Once she moved in with him she started shutting all that down. She repainted all the rooms in HIS house over a weekend he was gone and never told him she was going to do it. For their wedding, I was supposed to be his best man but she shut that down and put me in charge of seating the guests and made her brother the best man. Her brother barely knew my friend. I got into it with this chic a few times so I wasn't surprised. We didn't see eye to eye on anything. I was a threat to her relationship because I called her out on her crap.
 
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The Duke said:
I had two friends that had women that didn't care for me. I was too wild, strong, and liked my freedom. I wasn't going to be controlled by some woman.

One would call my buddy up and tell him it was time to come home. Usually it only took 2hours of him being gone. He would comply every time. Before she came along this guy was banging girls left and right, always a good time, and living a great life. Not sure why he married her, but she definitely tells him what he can and can't do. This dude complained about his girl all the time but never put his foot down.

The other friend had a girl he dated for several years. She slowly took control of his life and our relationship. He used to stay with me on weekends, go to $trip clubs together, drink, go to concerts, etc. Once she moved in with him she started shutting all that down. She repainted all the rooms in HIS house over a weekend he was gone and never told him she was going to do it. For their wedding, I was supposed to be his best man but she shut that down and put me in charge of seating the guests and made her brother the best man. Her brother barely knew my friend. I got into it with this chic a few times so I wasn't surprised. We didn't see eye to eye on anything. I was a threat to her relationship because I called her out on her crap.
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Exactly what I posted about above...these woman saw a target they knew was easy to manipulate and they locked them down.
 
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At the end of the day, it's just about leverage. Modern relationship gives women more power to choose their partner, set the standards, and extract their resources, in which also includes how his time and energy get spent.

There is an old Colombian saying goes: 'If a woman is not giving you a hard time she is either a man or already has a side guy.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

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The degree of cucking the typical married modern man experiences now is absolutely unparalleled. It's ****ing pathetic.
 
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