"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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maverick72 said:
Do you think so? SO many ladies are aggressive.
The only times I've been approached by random girls were:

-When one wanted to know if I was using a machine in the gym.
-Girl asked me if I had any gum in the parking lot at college.

Never been approached and actually hit on by a random girl.
 

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Not as far as I've noticed, I wish this were true. Well it is in the bar/club scene, but not otherwise.
 

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Hell no, all there is to it is a sense of entitlement that they have fostered, yet they still sit on their as*ses waiting for you to do everything and read their vague signs. I suppose they are only aggressive with the top men. Thats what Cosmo tells them. But all the fatties and lesbos surely are as aggressive as men nowadays. And then, it depends which type of aggression you are implying: passive, overt, sexual, physical? I dont see women beating up men, ...yet.
 

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If we consider passive aggressivness women became and passed men well back dozens of years ago.

If you mean that kind of aggressivity that lead you to being kicked if you fail no, they still decide carefully when to be aggressive and when not.

Hardly they will be aggressive to someone who can retaliate, while hubby fits great as a target to release frustration.
Afcs as well.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm no prize and I've been approached about 3 times in my life on the street with an overt hit on by women. One time I was visiting a friend in Harlem and I was hungry so I ordered some fried chicken. I was so hungry I didn't wait to eat and just started eating as I walked down the street. This random girl comes up to me and she's like "hey baby you have some nice eyes." I just look at her and laugh, and keep walking. Then she's like "can i come with you and have some of that chicken." lol what....the frick. I told her "no I'm really hungry" and kept walking. The funny part is that story is actually true, and I'm such a white boy it's not even funny.

I usually don't have problems talking with women, but she took me totally offguard as I had chickenwings in my mouth and BBQ sauce on my hands....lol....
 

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maverick72 said:
Do you think so? SO many ladies are aggressive.
LOL!

I was almost going to start a topic with that very title (Ladies act like Men in 2012) but not about being aggressive. Most of them are not.


no, I was going to mention the level of promiscuity and not giving a damn about keeping things together/non-commitment/entitlement thing going on as of late.


They damn well should be aggressive though.

In this day & age of equal women's rights n such, they damn well need to step up and do half the asking out.
 

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I'm not sure if they are aggressive but alot of them have a princess syndrome.
 

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I believe that it is men who are starting to act like women more and more. There is data showing that that testosterone levels, sperm count and even the testicle size are dropping in comparison to what it used to be. He he.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's kinda true, I mean I usually don't approach girls on my own. So I've had quite a few of them start hitting on me, it's really nice but not enough of them are like this unfortunately :(
 

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That's okay, it's all going to change on december 21, 2012 anyway. Either we'll all die or a serious event will occur :rolleyes:

I hope all guys turn beta except us and millionaires pay us to teach them our ways, ahaha.
 
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