"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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women are becoming like men in 2012

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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maverick72 said:
Do you think so? SO many ladies are aggressive.
The only times I've been approached by random girls were:

-When one wanted to know if I was using a machine in the gym.
-Girl asked me if I had any gum in the parking lot at college.

Never been approached and actually hit on by a random girl.
 

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Not as far as I've noticed, I wish this were true. Well it is in the bar/club scene, but not otherwise.
 

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Hell no, all there is to it is a sense of entitlement that they have fostered, yet they still sit on their as*ses waiting for you to do everything and read their vague signs. I suppose they are only aggressive with the top men. Thats what Cosmo tells them. But all the fatties and lesbos surely are as aggressive as men nowadays. And then, it depends which type of aggression you are implying: passive, overt, sexual, physical? I dont see women beating up men, ...yet.
 

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If we consider passive aggressivness women became and passed men well back dozens of years ago.

If you mean that kind of aggressivity that lead you to being kicked if you fail no, they still decide carefully when to be aggressive and when not.

Hardly they will be aggressive to someone who can retaliate, while hubby fits great as a target to release frustration.
Afcs as well.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm no prize and I've been approached about 3 times in my life on the street with an overt hit on by women. One time I was visiting a friend in Harlem and I was hungry so I ordered some fried chicken. I was so hungry I didn't wait to eat and just started eating as I walked down the street. This random girl comes up to me and she's like "hey baby you have some nice eyes." I just look at her and laugh, and keep walking. Then she's like "can i come with you and have some of that chicken." lol what....the frick. I told her "no I'm really hungry" and kept walking. The funny part is that story is actually true, and I'm such a white boy it's not even funny.

I usually don't have problems talking with women, but she took me totally offguard as I had chickenwings in my mouth and BBQ sauce on my hands....lol....
 

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maverick72 said:
Do you think so? SO many ladies are aggressive.
LOL!

I was almost going to start a topic with that very title (Ladies act like Men in 2012) but not about being aggressive. Most of them are not.


no, I was going to mention the level of promiscuity and not giving a damn about keeping things together/non-commitment/entitlement thing going on as of late.


They damn well should be aggressive though.

In this day & age of equal women's rights n such, they damn well need to step up and do half the asking out.
 

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I'm not sure if they are aggressive but alot of them have a princess syndrome.
 

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I believe that it is men who are starting to act like women more and more. There is data showing that that testosterone levels, sperm count and even the testicle size are dropping in comparison to what it used to be. He he.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's kinda true, I mean I usually don't approach girls on my own. So I've had quite a few of them start hitting on me, it's really nice but not enough of them are like this unfortunately :(
 

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That's okay, it's all going to change on december 21, 2012 anyway. Either we'll all die or a serious event will occur :rolleyes:

I hope all guys turn beta except us and millionaires pay us to teach them our ways, ahaha.
 
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