"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Domo_Arigatoo

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I have a question for you experienced DJs.

Ever since i've visited this website i've applied what i've learned into my life and noticed a large change in the vibe i exude and my success with women, slowly but surely i've been attracting more women and i've realized in the past all the things i've done wrong, and i almost want to slap myself across the face for being such a chump...

But anyways, now to the point of the post.
I've noticed that lately whenever a girl does something that i consider even a slight bit unnapeasing to me (only if it affects me directly, such as calling me dumb/weird, still playfully, or her making me take unnessecary effort to do something) I'll show them that i disliked what they did, and am adamant about my displeasure. And 95% of the time they get a sad look on their face, and/or, say "sorry, i'll try not to/won't do that again" (something along the lines of that). Is this good? neutral? bad? I'm eager to know if this is a form of screening and if it makes the woman more interested in you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hard to tell but my first impression is if you're voicing your displeasure in a cry baby type of way it's probably not good. As if you're saying "whaaa, you're huring my feelings, whaaaa"


But if you're conveying the message in a calm and confident manner as if you're the adult discaplining a child, then that is good. You're are in effect saying "you're rude and ignorant, it would be in your best interest to stop, and if you don't then be gone"
 
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st_99 said:
Hard to tell but my first impression is if you're voicing your displeasure in a cry baby type of way it's probably not good. As if you're saying "whaaa, you're huring my feelings, whaaaa"


But if you're conveying the message in a calm and confident manner as if you're the adult discaplining a child, then that is good. You're are in effect saying "you're rude and ignorant, it would be in your best interest to stop, and if you don't then be gone"
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Haha well it isn't my nature to act like you explained in the first paragraph
My type of reaction varies depending on what they did, i could be playful with her and say the, "you owe me for that one" line followed by a smile or a "smiley" if it's texting.
Or if what they did was rude and thoroughly upset me, i'll behave as the adult disciplining the child, in a calm manner of course.
 
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