"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Domo_Arigatoo

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I have a question for you experienced DJs.

Ever since i've visited this website i've applied what i've learned into my life and noticed a large change in the vibe i exude and my success with women, slowly but surely i've been attracting more women and i've realized in the past all the things i've done wrong, and i almost want to slap myself across the face for being such a chump...

But anyways, now to the point of the post.
I've noticed that lately whenever a girl does something that i consider even a slight bit unnapeasing to me (only if it affects me directly, such as calling me dumb/weird, still playfully, or her making me take unnessecary effort to do something) I'll show them that i disliked what they did, and am adamant about my displeasure. And 95% of the time they get a sad look on their face, and/or, say "sorry, i'll try not to/won't do that again" (something along the lines of that). Is this good? neutral? bad? I'm eager to know if this is a form of screening and if it makes the woman more interested in you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hard to tell but my first impression is if you're voicing your displeasure in a cry baby type of way it's probably not good. As if you're saying "whaaa, you're huring my feelings, whaaaa"


But if you're conveying the message in a calm and confident manner as if you're the adult discaplining a child, then that is good. You're are in effect saying "you're rude and ignorant, it would be in your best interest to stop, and if you don't then be gone"
 
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st_99 said:
Hard to tell but my first impression is if you're voicing your displeasure in a cry baby type of way it's probably not good. As if you're saying "whaaa, you're huring my feelings, whaaaa"


But if you're conveying the message in a calm and confident manner as if you're the adult discaplining a child, then that is good. You're are in effect saying "you're rude and ignorant, it would be in your best interest to stop, and if you don't then be gone"
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Haha well it isn't my nature to act like you explained in the first paragraph
My type of reaction varies depending on what they did, i could be playful with her and say the, "you owe me for that one" line followed by a smile or a "smiley" if it's texting.
Or if what they did was rude and thoroughly upset me, i'll behave as the adult disciplining the child, in a calm manner of course.
 
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