"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women and thier walls...what a joke.

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Well gents its been quite a while since I encountered this "wall" crap. One of the plates im spinning keeps telling me she has a wall. Ive only gone out with her twice - and she calls and texts all the time. But when we hang out she gets all defensive. I know its a bull test and frankly - its boring.

My verdict is to next her - I find as I get older I put up less of the bullsh!t that I used to. Hanging out with a new girl tonight - who frankly seems like less of the game player.

We dont win all of them do we? Ha.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good point Sod. I have to give it to ya - its true.

Not all the plates we spin are fun.
 

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Even the Berlin Wall came down. Just take out your covk and put it on the table.
 

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Why are you even worried about some stupid wall? You say you have other plates.

So drop her for a week and spin the other one's. Why worry about nexting over this?

Seems you are putting too much thought into it. Is it just me or does this seem petty?

Maybe she's not a ho. I had a girl make me wait FIVE dates recently I really had to work. Not ALL girls are ho's yet but it's getting there.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tinctrar said:
I find as I get older I put up less of the bullsh!t that I used to.
I found myself thinking this way about broads when i was in my freshmen year of college
 
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