"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women and thier walls...what a joke.

tinctrar

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Well gents its been quite a while since I encountered this "wall" crap. One of the plates im spinning keeps telling me she has a wall. Ive only gone out with her twice - and she calls and texts all the time. But when we hang out she gets all defensive. I know its a bull test and frankly - its boring.

My verdict is to next her - I find as I get older I put up less of the bullsh!t that I used to. Hanging out with a new girl tonight - who frankly seems like less of the game player.

We dont win all of them do we? Ha.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good point Sod. I have to give it to ya - its true.

Not all the plates we spin are fun.
 

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Even the Berlin Wall came down. Just take out your covk and put it on the table.
 

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Why are you even worried about some stupid wall? You say you have other plates.

So drop her for a week and spin the other one's. Why worry about nexting over this?

Seems you are putting too much thought into it. Is it just me or does this seem petty?

Maybe she's not a ho. I had a girl make me wait FIVE dates recently I really had to work. Not ALL girls are ho's yet but it's getting there.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tinctrar said:
I find as I get older I put up less of the bullsh!t that I used to.
I found myself thinking this way about broads when i was in my freshmen year of college
 
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