You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Is there anything as " non fat" chick? lol. For me women lose their bodies starting at 19.... those who stay slim are mostly anoretic, and they always have flacid asses....Mike32ct said:The girls' egos are so huge that they can't handle a less than hot guy approaching them. They actually get offended or at least feign being offended. It's like "How dare HE approach ME?"
Even if a fat chick approaches me, I don't sweat it. I'm probably not going to take her home, but I will be polite and chat with her for a couple minutes. She is a human being after all. I'm not going to get "offended" and call her a creeper. Unless she starts grabbing my junk lol.
But like the other poster said, it's so subjective that we shouldn't worry about it. Unless you really are acting clingy/stalkerish or perverted, don't give it a second thought.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.