"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women and the word "Creepy"

PappyS

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"Creepy" is a word young women use to boast about how desirable they think they are and how so many guys want them. Half the time it is delusional on their part.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thundernuts

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Creepy is just a word that women use to justify in their heads why they should deny this guy who is actually a good choice, he makes good money, wouldn't have to worry about him cheating, etc etc. Because they want the guy they can't have, the guy who actually sees the woman as an object and really doesn't care about her wellbeing.

Creepy is a word that could mean anything, when really it holds no merit, I've been called creepy one time, and i will admit i WAS being creepy...i just assumed she wanted my d!ck in her mouth while she slept.

kidding.

Honestly, what is the point in figuring out what creepy is, we can't stop the word from coming, we can't really define it since women are impossible to figure out, when you assume stupidity you are met intelligence, and vice versa, the thing i hate the most about creepy is you never know what the hell she means, even she doesn't know.

Thats just my 2 cents on the matter.
 

Mike32ct

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The girls' egos are so huge that they can't handle a less than hot guy approaching them. They actually get offended or at least feign being offended. It's like "How dare HE approach ME?"

Even if a fat chick approaches me, I don't sweat it. I'm probably not going to take her home, but I will be polite and chat with her for a couple minutes. She is a human being after all. I'm not going to get "offended" and call her a creeper. Unless she starts grabbing my junk lol.

But like the other poster said, it's so subjective that we shouldn't worry about it. Unless you really are acting clingy/stalkerish or perverted, don't give it a second thought.
 

curiousgeorge

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creepy= weird behaviour. in all honesty- he may be more likely to get called creepy if he's ugly, but its not exclusively confined to ugly men

the guy who follows a girl (who keeps telling him to **** off) round a club, tries to stick his hand down her pants, and eventually backs her into a corner while holding onto her wrists so she cant get away = CREEPY!
^ doesnt matter how good looking or hideous he is
 

JdelaSilviera

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Mike32ct said:
The girls' egos are so huge that they can't handle a less than hot guy approaching them. They actually get offended or at least feign being offended. It's like "How dare HE approach ME?"

Even if a fat chick approaches me, I don't sweat it. I'm probably not going to take her home, but I will be polite and chat with her for a couple minutes. She is a human being after all. I'm not going to get "offended" and call her a creeper. Unless she starts grabbing my junk lol.

But like the other poster said, it's so subjective that we shouldn't worry about it. Unless you really are acting clingy/stalkerish or perverted, don't give it a second thought.
Is there anything as " non fat" chick? lol. For me women lose their bodies starting at 19.... those who stay slim are mostly anoretic, and they always have flacid asses....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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