"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Women and tattoo's. How many are too much.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
resilient
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The ex before that had a few and one tramp stamp. If there's good enough chemistry or vibe, I may reconsider, but yeah... I prefer a woman w/o tats.
I've seen an uptick in chicks with tats lately, yet I just may be cognizant of them based on my recent experiences this year in dating.
Oh hell yes. Makes one wonder just how many men saw that tat and tattoo'd her puss walls with spooge.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mike32ct
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Projection at its finest.
I guess they want to appear "edgy", "with it", "in with the cool crowd", "badazz", etc. Ask them and they'll usually give you the "I like art, I just like them" stock answers. I look at them like cool tats cuz. Embrace your masculine side.
Of course if you don't care for tats on a chick you're "the lame".
dustmuffin
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"You have my last name tattooed right there under the J's. First I get my name in the phone book, and now I'm on your ass. You know, I'll bet more people see that than the phone book."
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Sho-No-Luv
Senior Don Juan
I asked her how old she was before i asked about the tattoo, she said 28. Just to confirm i asked her if her mother had died in 1975 and she confirmed that she did, but this was in 2014!!
So, this was the first time in history someone gave birth after death, lmfao
After that i started catching her in all kinds of lies.
Later that year she was fired from stealing 30k from the company that she worked for, go figure.
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Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
Worse then buying a new BMW at the stealership. In a few years the value tanks HUGE.
HOT GURL AT 18 = flat and saggy at 30 hahaha
Let them tat there hearts out.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Guaranteed...sluts will have them.
Yep, that’s why when to lower back tats became popular and when compared to the quality of the women that had them, they starting getting called tramp stamps…
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.