"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Women and tattoo's. How many are too much.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
resilient
Master Don Juan
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The ex before that had a few and one tramp stamp. If there's good enough chemistry or vibe, I may reconsider, but yeah... I prefer a woman w/o tats.
I've seen an uptick in chicks with tats lately, yet I just may be cognizant of them based on my recent experiences this year in dating.
Oh hell yes. Makes one wonder just how many men saw that tat and tattoo'd her puss walls with spooge.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mike32ct
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Projection at its finest.
I guess they want to appear "edgy", "with it", "in with the cool crowd", "badazz", etc. Ask them and they'll usually give you the "I like art, I just like them" stock answers. I look at them like cool tats cuz. Embrace your masculine side.
Of course if you don't care for tats on a chick you're "the lame".
dustmuffin
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"You have my last name tattooed right there under the J's. First I get my name in the phone book, and now I'm on your ass. You know, I'll bet more people see that than the phone book."
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Sho-No-Luv
Senior Don Juan
I asked her how old she was before i asked about the tattoo, she said 28. Just to confirm i asked her if her mother had died in 1975 and she confirmed that she did, but this was in 2014!!
So, this was the first time in history someone gave birth after death, lmfao
After that i started catching her in all kinds of lies.
Later that year she was fired from stealing 30k from the company that she worked for, go figure.
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Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
Worse then buying a new BMW at the stealership. In a few years the value tanks HUGE.
HOT GURL AT 18 = flat and saggy at 30 hahaha
Let them tat there hearts out.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Guaranteed...sluts will have them.
Yep, that’s why when to lower back tats became popular and when compared to the quality of the women that had them, they starting getting called tramp stamps…
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.