"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women and Interest

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If you've recently met a young lady which is pretty experienced in the dating scene and gets a fair amount of attention from guys, how do deal with her ?

Do you do the usual thing of showing interest like the rest of the guys and hope to get lucky or do you do your own thing?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So pimp its scary

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WOW!!! Where to start with this...

WOW!

Any answer I give you will be lost in translation I'm afraid.

Assuming you got past the initial intro, doing things like takeaways ("Oh, you just lost your chance with me right there" or "I don't think this relationship is going to work out"), c&f attitude, and an overall detachment to the outcome should pique her interest.

And no, I'm not going to dumb it down anyfurther.
 

Bonhomme

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Have fun with her, be your own man, keep your head on straight, don't overwhelm her with attention, and most importantly don't try to impress her.

If you project yourself the right way, you'll impress her automatically. On the other hand, if you lose your head about her, you'll turn her off automatically, and you should just forget her before you make an ass out of yourself.
 

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bon is right. just chill, read up on body language and everything, a lot that attracts women to us is our body language, which means the work is done before we even run a line. if you do that right, you dont have to neg hit her all day, maybe one or two and thats it.
 

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I'm planning on staying chill with this one. I'm not old in age but feel mentally old when it comes to dating tactics and mental charades.

I didn't do anything that showed interest and she pretty much did the same. It takes me a bit more time to know if I would like to associate with the person or not.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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