"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women and Interest

Dictatorsaurus

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If you've recently met a young lady which is pretty experienced in the dating scene and gets a fair amount of attention from guys, how do deal with her ?

Do you do the usual thing of showing interest like the rest of the guys and hope to get lucky or do you do your own thing?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So pimp its scary

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WOW!!! Where to start with this...

WOW!

Any answer I give you will be lost in translation I'm afraid.

Assuming you got past the initial intro, doing things like takeaways ("Oh, you just lost your chance with me right there" or "I don't think this relationship is going to work out"), c&f attitude, and an overall detachment to the outcome should pique her interest.

And no, I'm not going to dumb it down anyfurther.
 

Bonhomme

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Have fun with her, be your own man, keep your head on straight, don't overwhelm her with attention, and most importantly don't try to impress her.

If you project yourself the right way, you'll impress her automatically. On the other hand, if you lose your head about her, you'll turn her off automatically, and you should just forget her before you make an ass out of yourself.
 

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bon is right. just chill, read up on body language and everything, a lot that attracts women to us is our body language, which means the work is done before we even run a line. if you do that right, you dont have to neg hit her all day, maybe one or two and thats it.
 

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I'm planning on staying chill with this one. I'm not old in age but feel mentally old when it comes to dating tactics and mental charades.

I didn't do anything that showed interest and she pretty much did the same. It takes me a bit more time to know if I would like to associate with the person or not.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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