"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women and interest Levels

Bingo-Player

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today i want to discuss women and their wide spectrum of interest levels

i don’t think ive ever come across something as complicated as a woman’s interest , the slightest action or word is capable of increasing it or decreasing it like flicking a light switch

ive therefore come to the conclusion that when dealing with an interested woman , keeping you mouth shut as often as possible is your safest bet and that includes all forms of digital communication too

but how do you know shes interested in the first place ? well i find this is actually the easier part of interacting with women because if she is interested in
you she will make it nice and easy for you to understand

this includes all of the below

Frequent / Prolonged Eye contact ......ive learnt this a woman’s favourite method of giving a guy the green light

i like using the 3 strike method so if we catch eachothers eyes 3 times in the space of a few minutes i will immediately make my move

Double taking......ever walked past a woman and shes looked twice ? congrats she finds you attractive bad news is once shes done this you need to make your introduction and quickly or she will automatically assume you are taken or uninterested in her....... thats the way womens minds work

Laughing at every word you say ......ever found you’ve suddenly become the funniest guy on planet earth without even realising it ? ......yep she’s damp for you

Publicising your interactions on social media.......this is a bit further down the line but if a woman starts tagging you in photos and checking you in places etc etc she’s making it public that you are now associated with each other and i find younger chicks tend to do this a lot primarily to warn other females off (more unwritten “girl code” sh1t)

All your ideas are great ........you suggest that you go back to your palace to watch the big game with a beer and pizza She has no objections (winner)

She is eager to provide you with opportunities to fvck her, ( and if you aint got a naturally horny girl go out and get one trust me their fun ;) )

Now thats all the easy stuff , unfortunately not all women are going to have that level of interest in you and society is increasingly teaching them NOT to have that sort of high interest in a man

So what were left with now is a ton of women who seem to approach men/dating with the attitude of “lets see what this one can do”

i would say with most new girls i meet now i have a window of a week maybe 2 max , in which i have to go from the first encounter to full sex or at the very least start engaging in sexual acts with her

and thats just to keep her interest for me stable

i wait any longer than that i find women to start becoming difficult, unresponsive and flaky....... why I’m not entirely sure

so yea thats my take on women and their interest levels

if anyone fancys adding anything feel free
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I always wondered the eye contact thing. What about a prolonged eye contact when passing by each other?
 

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These are all well and good but mean nothing in the grand scheme of things. The only way you know for sure is when she has your salami halfway down her throat
 

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I think it's simple supply and demand. Attractive women are in demand because their supply is quite small compared to your average, thirsty man, which spills over to women who aren't even that high on the scale.
When in a first world country where they've got money/feminism they're going to be even more difficult. Not necessarily because they're taught to be, but simply because they can be. That's what having "options" does to their behavior.
 

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These are all well and good but mean nothing in the grand scheme of things. The only way you know for sure is when she has your salami halfway down her throat
well yes were all fully aware of that , but if it was that simple then none of us would be here
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I always wondered the eye contact thing. What about a prolonged eye contact when passing by each other?
yes it would generally mean shes finds you attractive and wouldnt mind speaking to you , but of course your job as the man to initate the converstation
 

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Let's ban this s**t about IOI's. We want sex, women want attention more than sex.

IOI's aren't always accurate. Attractive women throw them out like beads in a Mardi Gras parade. But when you make a move, they either:

1. Get shocked and back off because you want more than just being her orbiter.
2. Start following your lead.

AFAIC IOI's become so when you are having sex. Any other time, they are just fluff.

IOD's are unfortunately more accurate. If she's throwing too many at you, move on.

Above all, you need to make a move. Stop analyzing these f**king "buying signals". Shoot first, ask questions later. Also, if she's not that receptive, reject her or friendzone her.

No sex=no attention.

That's my ruling.

Case closed.
 

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Let's ban this s**t about IOI's. We want sex, women want attention more than sex.

IOI's aren't always accurate. Attractive women throw them out like beads in a Mardi Gras parade. But when you make a move, they either:

1. Get shocked and back off because you want more than just being her orbiter.
2. Start following your lead.

AFAIC IOI's become so when you are having sex. Any other time, they are just fluff.

IOD's are unfortunately more accurate. If she's throwing too many at you, move on.

Above all, you need to make a move. Stop analyzing these f**king "buying signals". Shoot first, ask questions later. Also, if she's not that receptive, reject her or friendzone her.

No sex=no attention.

That's my ruling.

Case closed.

this isnt about IOI's , i never mentioned IOI's i have no care for them

ive stated basic female behaviours when they are interested in a male you cant deny any of them , go ask any woman what she would do to get a mans attention and i gaurentee she will mention at least one if not all of what ive said above

a womans interest level towards you and her giving you a couple of IOI's are two completely seperate issues
 

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this isnt about IOI's , i never mentioned IOI's i have no care for them

ive stated basic female behaviours when they are interested in a male you cant deny any of them , go ask any woman what she would do to get a mans attention and i gaurentee she will mention at least one if not all of what ive said above

a womans interest level towards you and her giving you a couple of IOI's are two completely seperate issues
AFAIC if you think she's showing interest and you think something will develop, get over there and make a move. Who knows what will happen? But you do miss all the shots you don't take.

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