So you've got the number and you call her. You're on the phone and via the 'getting to know process' she elaborates on past men. This is not a red flag. Often times she will talk frankly on what they did wrong. In my case: I was told that her previous 'date' had tried to swoon her with gifts that lacked any creativity. I read this as she doesn't necessarily dislike gifts but she wants them to be admiring of her personal qualities not as an attempt at buying her love. So before you buy a girl roses use your brains instead of your heart and buy her something more meaningfull. Also it doesn't have to be expensive and the more it is a token of your own personal expression the better.
This is important to note because often the posts on these boards focus on the extremes like "never buy a girl a gift before the 20th date." If a good girl is interested in you (not a gold digger) then anything that is an expression of the qualities she likes about you will be as seen as a valuable gift.
This has been probably discussed but I wanted to open it for anyone else to add things.
This is important to note because often the posts on these boards focus on the extremes like "never buy a girl a gift before the 20th date." If a good girl is interested in you (not a gold digger) then anything that is an expression of the qualities she likes about you will be as seen as a valuable gift.
This has been probably discussed but I wanted to open it for anyone else to add things.