"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women acting like Men.

Best friends? NAY

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There was a girl who about a month ago started going to my school and was in a few of my classes. When I first saw her she was a 7, but as I got to know her she kept going down beacuse she acts like a guy, now i see her mabey as 4 (she actualy seems uglier to me), and I would never date her now.

I knew girls felt less attraction to guys that act like girls, just thought that it was interesting that it happened to me being a guy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeah it happens to me, but more when they act crazy rather than like blokes, although the two tedn to go together.
 

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Mmmm, there is a hell of a lot of parallels between problems that girls have with guys and problems guys have with girls. I'm totally with you on how unattractive it is for a girl to act like a bloke. C'mon, it's just not feminine, though I don't mind the crazy girls as much, except on mondays.

I have thought about how much worse it would be to be a loser girl than a loser guy. An AFC can become a Don Juan, irrespective of their looks and personality. Any guy can improve their looks to be at a level that their personality will carry them the extra distance, so to speak. This is because girls will **** a guy who looks like a rat if he makes them feel good. Can you really imagine going out witha dog of a girl because she's a "great person".

The phrase "No, oh god...just...no." springs to mind.

****, and then there's pregnancy, bleeding from your slit, being physically inferior (hopefully), and the whole high school girl *****-a-thon that goes on.

Damn, is there anything an ugly girl can do that doesn't involve surgery? Poor *****es...poor *****es indeed.
 

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Well i know a girl that did go to get surgery.

There is th time tested route that the ugly hoes at my school follow, be a hoe. They get some simply by putting out . . .
 
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