"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women’s Libido

Is your main willing to have sex every time you meet?

  • Yes

    Votes: 12 80.0%
  • No

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • Total voters
    15
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This poll is for those of you who have a primary relationship with a woman (and maybe spin plates). I spin plates mostly because most of the women I’ve been involved with do not want sex daily.

I respectfully request that you only vote if you are seeing a woman more than 3x a week.

Mind you, the adage “if you’re not getting to hit it all the time she’s not that attracted.”
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My previous ltr wanted sex less and less frequently until she left me. Not cool but I learned and got better.

My current gf is great because shes more into sex than me. I could do with busting a nut a day and move on to do other stuff, but she wants to keep having sex, so I keep going and going just to please her, I dont mind.
 

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bless her soul.

My previous ltr wanted sex less and less frequently until she left me. Not cool but I learned and got better.

My current gf is great because shes more into sex than me. I could do with busting a nut a day and move on to do other stuff, but she wants to keep having sex, so I keep going and going just to please her, I dont mind.
 

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Hell my plates all would try, just not my main, silly me.
 

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I spin 2 or 3 plates usually. Have been in LTRs as well.

what I find is plates usually want sex more often, and give better sex. Remember: women use sex to gain an LTR. If you don’t give them exclusivity, they will work for it, usually through sex. Some of the most mind blowing sex I’ve had is with primary plate. Talking 5 hours straight before bed, waking up and going for another 5 hours. Then going to shower to clean up and fvcking again in the shower. Don’t get that type of insane passion in LTRs, especially as the relationship progresses.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what I find is plates usually want sex more often, and give better sex.
Exactly.

Plates/Fwbs all give you more sex than LTR's, and less drama as well.

Most of the time, LTR's are just not worth it.
 
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