Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Women’s Libido

Is your main willing to have sex every time you meet?

  • Yes

    Votes: 12 80.0%
  • No

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • Total voters
    15
  • Poll closed .

Pierce Manhammer

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This poll is for those of you who have a primary relationship with a woman (and maybe spin plates). I spin plates mostly because most of the women I’ve been involved with do not want sex daily.

I respectfully request that you only vote if you are seeing a woman more than 3x a week.

Mind you, the adage “if you’re not getting to hit it all the time she’s not that attracted.”
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My previous ltr wanted sex less and less frequently until she left me. Not cool but I learned and got better.

My current gf is great because shes more into sex than me. I could do with busting a nut a day and move on to do other stuff, but she wants to keep having sex, so I keep going and going just to please her, I dont mind.
 

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bless her soul.

My previous ltr wanted sex less and less frequently until she left me. Not cool but I learned and got better.

My current gf is great because shes more into sex than me. I could do with busting a nut a day and move on to do other stuff, but she wants to keep having sex, so I keep going and going just to please her, I dont mind.
 

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Hell my plates all would try, just not my main, silly me.
 

SoSuave666

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I spin 2 or 3 plates usually. Have been in LTRs as well.

what I find is plates usually want sex more often, and give better sex. Remember: women use sex to gain an LTR. If you don’t give them exclusivity, they will work for it, usually through sex. Some of the most mind blowing sex I’ve had is with primary plate. Talking 5 hours straight before bed, waking up and going for another 5 hours. Then going to shower to clean up and fvcking again in the shower. Don’t get that type of insane passion in LTRs, especially as the relationship progresses.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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manfrombelow

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what I find is plates usually want sex more often, and give better sex.
Exactly.

Plates/Fwbs all give you more sex than LTR's, and less drama as well.

Most of the time, LTR's are just not worth it.
 
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