Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:crackup:Create Reality said:Thanks for appealing to my ego. I'll get my coat.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
:crackup:Create Reality said:Thanks for appealing to my ego. I'll get my coat.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well I don't say women can't be logical when they want to be. I'm just saying they have no use for logic when it comes to actually dealing with a real life man, because if they used true logic women couldn't justify all their crap and BS so they resort ot false logic. I'm just saying logic, fairplay and integrity isn't what women prefer to aspire to.iqqi said:LOL, I like Lexie.
Be careful with that logic, girl, they might start thinking YOU are a man, too!!
No more miss nice Lexie, this is fun....
iqqi said:LOL, I like Lexie.
Be careful with that logic, girl, they might start thinking YOU are a man, too!!
No more miss nice Lexie, this is fun....
What a crock of shiit. I guess anything to make vacuuming, cooking and changing diapers appear more challenging and important than holding down an actual job and keeping the house and car from falling apart.LovelyLady said:2. "A man works from rise to set of Sun, a woman's work is never done".
Our culture values work that can be completed, pointed at as a finished product.
Traditionally, men's work has a stopping point. They can say after building a deck, "look at my completed job" and their wives/society says "Damn you're good". (Which of course he IS LOL) And a year later, that deck is still there and he can still point to it as an accomplishment/valid contribution. It maintains it's perceived value due to it's longevity/usefullness.
Traditonal woman's work/homemaking - laundry for example: She spends hours and hours of her life doing her family's laundry. While putting it all away in the drawers, feeling content that everyone will be okay for the next week because everything is ready for them, another dirty towel is going down the laundry chute.
There is no finished moment, there is most often not even a "thank you" in her entire lifetime from any family member who has been on the receiving end of her work. There is no finished moment to create opportunity for acknowlegdement for the job well-done - because it never is done.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Maybe we can offer Lexie some advice after all...Lexie said:I'm not being mean...I'm just not going to sit by and listen while someone insults me.