Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:crackup:Create Reality said:Thanks for appealing to my ego. I'll get my coat.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
:crackup:Create Reality said:Thanks for appealing to my ego. I'll get my coat.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well I don't say women can't be logical when they want to be. I'm just saying they have no use for logic when it comes to actually dealing with a real life man, because if they used true logic women couldn't justify all their crap and BS so they resort ot false logic. I'm just saying logic, fairplay and integrity isn't what women prefer to aspire to.iqqi said:LOL, I like Lexie.
Be careful with that logic, girl, they might start thinking YOU are a man, too!!
No more miss nice Lexie, this is fun....
iqqi said:LOL, I like Lexie.
Be careful with that logic, girl, they might start thinking YOU are a man, too!!
No more miss nice Lexie, this is fun....
What a crock of shiit. I guess anything to make vacuuming, cooking and changing diapers appear more challenging and important than holding down an actual job and keeping the house and car from falling apart.LovelyLady said:2. "A man works from rise to set of Sun, a woman's work is never done".
Our culture values work that can be completed, pointed at as a finished product.
Traditionally, men's work has a stopping point. They can say after building a deck, "look at my completed job" and their wives/society says "Damn you're good". (Which of course he IS LOL) And a year later, that deck is still there and he can still point to it as an accomplishment/valid contribution. It maintains it's perceived value due to it's longevity/usefullness.
Traditonal woman's work/homemaking - laundry for example: She spends hours and hours of her life doing her family's laundry. While putting it all away in the drawers, feeling content that everyone will be okay for the next week because everything is ready for them, another dirty towel is going down the laundry chute.
There is no finished moment, there is most often not even a "thank you" in her entire lifetime from any family member who has been on the receiving end of her work. There is no finished moment to create opportunity for acknowlegdement for the job well-done - because it never is done.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Maybe we can offer Lexie some advice after all...Lexie said:I'm not being mean...I'm just not going to sit by and listen while someone insults me.