Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Woman's Insulting Condescension!

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The attitude of some women! Today I had an interview this one woman who by virtue of her privileged backround saw fit to treat me like a piece of s**t she scrapped of her heels. She seemingly enjoyed subtly talking down to me and insulting the lower-middle class neighbourhood I live in, the car I drive, and my parents' blue-collar background. And all because she gets around in a nice BMW and is living an oh-so-rosy life due to the silverspoon shoved up her a-hole from birth.

Where the **** do people get off treating others like this? I suppose what pisses me off the most is the fact that I just sat there and pretended not to pick up on her attitude. And even though I wanted to spit VULGAR MALICE at her FAT A**, I just sat there like a d!ckhead for 30 minutes and left without standing up for myself because I feared the repercussions of such an outburst. I now feel down, frustrated and pissed off for not giving as good as I got! :cuss:

Oh well, at least I wasn't a big enough fool to leave the interview saying, "Thank you for your time." :rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LOL.. people dont have to care and hardly ever will.. accept that fast..
Capitalism and materialism rule us all now so you will be judged by what you have and dont have.. You need to thicken your skin.. work extra hard and do the best you can to improve what you have and yourself as a person.
 

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Strangely enough, In decades past, people of lower social station were not allowed into the upper crust of society...at all. Only in present times are you allowed to have any interaction of any type.

So, one might say that the fault lies with your assumption that you somehow deserve to be treated as an equal. You are not equal. A persons value is determined by the amount of natural resources he/she is able to control and or consume. You consume less, therefore your value is less. Had your value been higher, you wouldn't have noticed anything she said. Though, it is considered nouveau to outwardly proclaim ones superiority in front of a member of the peasant class. For that she should be faulted.
 
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Tictac said:
"No one can make you feel inferior without your permission"
Eleanor Roosevelt

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This.

But also, the fact that you are insulted by it means you have some sort of insecurity regarding your stature or hers.

Also, I would guess that the fact that she was interviewing you made you feel inferior, though I can't know this.

My advice would be to examine whether you need to realign your perceptions with reality. After that, if you feel that reality is not as you would like it to be, take steps to change it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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" LIfe is like a sh1t sandwich. The more bread you have, the less sh1t you have to eat." You can't put her in her place because she has the power to hire you or not.She knows it and you know it-she abused her power[not cool]. Women in a position of power often abuse it[think marriage without a pre-nup].

It could be some inferiority on your part, but some employers actually like people with PHD's[Poor,Hungry,Driven]
 

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As long as PU$$Y is worth more than D!CK, and its easier for a woman to get a man than for a man to get a woman. women will have the power.. and men will have to suppliment their lesser value with other material items.
 

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DonGorgon said:
As long as PU$$Y is worth more than D!CK, and its easier for a woman to get a man than for a man to get a woman. women will have the power.. and men will have to suppliment their lesser value with other material items.

what the hell does that have to do with a job interview. Seriously?

This thread is a bunch of moan. Some people suck, some don't, get over it and toughen up.
 

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I never said it was a job interview; I just said it was an interview. There also appears to be some uppity snob types on this board, too (judging by some of the replies).

So, one might say that the fault lies with your assumption that you somehow deserve to be treated as an equal. You are not equal.
Wow. If there ever was a presumptuous, arrogant comment...
 

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Warrior74 said:
what the hell does that have to do with a job interview. Seriously?

This thread is a bunch of moan. Some people suck, some don't, get over it and toughen up.
THE TRUTH, THOUGH OFTEN IGNORED AND FEARED, IS ALWAYS RELEVANT. Even in job interviews and in "hell" where there is alot of weeping and moaning Even the toughest man to walk the earth cannot escape such a fact.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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