"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Woman's Insulting Condescension!

BigWillyStyle

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The attitude of some women! Today I had an interview this one woman who by virtue of her privileged backround saw fit to treat me like a piece of s**t she scrapped of her heels. She seemingly enjoyed subtly talking down to me and insulting the lower-middle class neighbourhood I live in, the car I drive, and my parents' blue-collar background. And all because she gets around in a nice BMW and is living an oh-so-rosy life due to the silverspoon shoved up her a-hole from birth.

Where the **** do people get off treating others like this? I suppose what pisses me off the most is the fact that I just sat there and pretended not to pick up on her attitude. And even though I wanted to spit VULGAR MALICE at her FAT A**, I just sat there like a d!ckhead for 30 minutes and left without standing up for myself because I feared the repercussions of such an outburst. I now feel down, frustrated and pissed off for not giving as good as I got! :cuss:

Oh well, at least I wasn't a big enough fool to leave the interview saying, "Thank you for your time." :rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LOL.. people dont have to care and hardly ever will.. accept that fast..
Capitalism and materialism rule us all now so you will be judged by what you have and dont have.. You need to thicken your skin.. work extra hard and do the best you can to improve what you have and yourself as a person.
 

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Strangely enough, In decades past, people of lower social station were not allowed into the upper crust of society...at all. Only in present times are you allowed to have any interaction of any type.

So, one might say that the fault lies with your assumption that you somehow deserve to be treated as an equal. You are not equal. A persons value is determined by the amount of natural resources he/she is able to control and or consume. You consume less, therefore your value is less. Had your value been higher, you wouldn't have noticed anything she said. Though, it is considered nouveau to outwardly proclaim ones superiority in front of a member of the peasant class. For that she should be faulted.
 
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Tictac said:
"No one can make you feel inferior without your permission"
Eleanor Roosevelt

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This.

But also, the fact that you are insulted by it means you have some sort of insecurity regarding your stature or hers.

Also, I would guess that the fact that she was interviewing you made you feel inferior, though I can't know this.

My advice would be to examine whether you need to realign your perceptions with reality. After that, if you feel that reality is not as you would like it to be, take steps to change it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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" LIfe is like a sh1t sandwich. The more bread you have, the less sh1t you have to eat." You can't put her in her place because she has the power to hire you or not.She knows it and you know it-she abused her power[not cool]. Women in a position of power often abuse it[think marriage without a pre-nup].

It could be some inferiority on your part, but some employers actually like people with PHD's[Poor,Hungry,Driven]
 

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As long as PU$$Y is worth more than D!CK, and its easier for a woman to get a man than for a man to get a woman. women will have the power.. and men will have to suppliment their lesser value with other material items.
 

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DonGorgon said:
As long as PU$$Y is worth more than D!CK, and its easier for a woman to get a man than for a man to get a woman. women will have the power.. and men will have to suppliment their lesser value with other material items.

what the hell does that have to do with a job interview. Seriously?

This thread is a bunch of moan. Some people suck, some don't, get over it and toughen up.
 

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I never said it was a job interview; I just said it was an interview. There also appears to be some uppity snob types on this board, too (judging by some of the replies).

So, one might say that the fault lies with your assumption that you somehow deserve to be treated as an equal. You are not equal.
Wow. If there ever was a presumptuous, arrogant comment...
 

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Warrior74 said:
what the hell does that have to do with a job interview. Seriously?

This thread is a bunch of moan. Some people suck, some don't, get over it and toughen up.
THE TRUTH, THOUGH OFTEN IGNORED AND FEARED, IS ALWAYS RELEVANT. Even in job interviews and in "hell" where there is alot of weeping and moaning Even the toughest man to walk the earth cannot escape such a fact.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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