"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"womans fragrances/colognes"

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So what exactly is the difference between female fragrances and mens colognes? apart from the name (i.e saying it is a fragrance for a man or woman) and the bottle design e.g "pretty / girly" or "slick / manly".

What I want to know really is that if I wore a fragrance meant for a woman would It get noticed? or would woman notice and think I smell feminie and laugh at me or something?

If I sound like I haven't got a clue well I haven't because I never wear colognes myself because I can be allergic to lots of scents and stuff but i'm defintly thinking of getting some now just for the fact it show you look after yourself and improves your game.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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familyguyfan

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Women's perfumes are generally sweeter smelling than men's.

And wearing cologne doesn't improve your game at all. The best it'll do is make a girl say you smell good, which is definitely good, but if you don't have game on your own it won't matter.
 

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Perfume is for women.
Cologne is for men.

Perfume smells far more feminine than cologne does. Just as you wouldn't wear girl's clothes, don't wear their perfume - even gay men don't do this. If you do, and anyone notices, you'll be the laughingstock of your community. One other thing, that had been hit on earlier - don't expect cologne to instantly boost your game. It's just going to make you smell pleasant... not cause girls to tackle you in the supermarket.
 

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Why are you even asking a question like this?? Would you go around and wear womens clothing?? Perfume is for women, if youre a fruitcup go ahead and get some. There's plenty of colognes out, simply pick one.
 

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:D As I said I don't have a clue what smells good and what doesn't i just want to smell good for a change..I just wondered what the difference between female and male ones were , weather they actually smelt different of not or if they were basically the same thing...only reason being I was looking at the ingredients / smells on looks of different brands for both sexes and most seem to have the same fragrances in them.

I'll have a search on this site and see what colognes people on here reccomend.

Cheers.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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