"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Womans asks 5 times when we goin out then says she cant make it!

danny0001uk

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Hi All,

I been chatting to this woman on pof and ive got her number and weve been txting. Ive been playing it slow and she must have asked my about 5 times when were goin for a drink so today i said well go for a drink on weds then a few txts later she txts back saying i cant do weds cause my friends staying over!!!??

Any advice what to txt back?

Cheers

Dan
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Doesn't sound like a tough situation.

You can either say: "I might have some time on Thursday."

or

"What day is good for you? I'll see what my schedule's like."
 

dudewut

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Just be like "Ok, [insert whatever day]day then, if you cant make it, too bad"

just my humble take
 

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i replied back saying u either want to see me or not if you do then lets make plans if you dnt then lets go our seperate ways.

And she txted back saying u said wednesday without even asking if i could that night. I can do any otha night execept weds and fri. I was the one that asked if you wanted to go for a drink y would i do that just for fun!

What should i put back?

Something like thats fine i just dont wanna be given the runaround?

Cheers
 

Mantis Toboggan

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danny0001uk said:
i replied back saying u either want to see me or not if you do then lets make plans if you dnt then lets go our seperate ways.

And she txted back saying u said wednesday without even asking if i could that night. I can do any otha night execept weds and fri. I was the one that asked if you wanted to go for a drink y would i do that just for fun!

What should i put back?

Something like thats fine i just dont wanna be given the runaround?

Cheers
What runaround?

Sounds like you asked her out ONCE, and on this ONE day you asked her, she happened to be busy. Sometimes that happens, you know....people have lives.

So, now you're already losing your cool, yelling at the chick via text. Lighten up, chief. Some of you guys are way too sensitive.

Whatever you respond, just pretend like the "angry text" never happened. Don't talk about a runaround. Just say "I should be free Tuesday. How's that sound?" And let that be the end of it.

Dudes are so worried about being "alpha" that they're trying to dominate before they even meet the chick...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tiguere

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say thursday. we all know you gonna be jacking it off every day so stop pretending like youre busy.
 

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Tiguere said:
say thursday. we all know you gonna be jacking it off every day so stop pretending like youre busy.
^^^
 
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