"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Womans asks 5 times when we goin out then says she cant make it!

danny0001uk

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Hi All,

I been chatting to this woman on pof and ive got her number and weve been txting. Ive been playing it slow and she must have asked my about 5 times when were goin for a drink so today i said well go for a drink on weds then a few txts later she txts back saying i cant do weds cause my friends staying over!!!??

Any advice what to txt back?

Cheers

Dan
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Doesn't sound like a tough situation.

You can either say: "I might have some time on Thursday."

or

"What day is good for you? I'll see what my schedule's like."
 

dudewut

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Just be like "Ok, [insert whatever day]day then, if you cant make it, too bad"

just my humble take
 

danny0001uk

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i replied back saying u either want to see me or not if you do then lets make plans if you dnt then lets go our seperate ways.

And she txted back saying u said wednesday without even asking if i could that night. I can do any otha night execept weds and fri. I was the one that asked if you wanted to go for a drink y would i do that just for fun!

What should i put back?

Something like thats fine i just dont wanna be given the runaround?

Cheers
 

Mantis Toboggan

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danny0001uk said:
i replied back saying u either want to see me or not if you do then lets make plans if you dnt then lets go our seperate ways.

And she txted back saying u said wednesday without even asking if i could that night. I can do any otha night execept weds and fri. I was the one that asked if you wanted to go for a drink y would i do that just for fun!

What should i put back?

Something like thats fine i just dont wanna be given the runaround?

Cheers
What runaround?

Sounds like you asked her out ONCE, and on this ONE day you asked her, she happened to be busy. Sometimes that happens, you know....people have lives.

So, now you're already losing your cool, yelling at the chick via text. Lighten up, chief. Some of you guys are way too sensitive.

Whatever you respond, just pretend like the "angry text" never happened. Don't talk about a runaround. Just say "I should be free Tuesday. How's that sound?" And let that be the end of it.

Dudes are so worried about being "alpha" that they're trying to dominate before they even meet the chick...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tiguere

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say thursday. we all know you gonna be jacking it off every day so stop pretending like youre busy.
 

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Tiguere said:
say thursday. we all know you gonna be jacking it off every day so stop pretending like youre busy.
^^^
 
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