"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Womans asks 5 times when we goin out then says she cant make it!

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Hi All,

I been chatting to this woman on pof and ive got her number and weve been txting. Ive been playing it slow and she must have asked my about 5 times when were goin for a drink so today i said well go for a drink on weds then a few txts later she txts back saying i cant do weds cause my friends staying over!!!??

Any advice what to txt back?

Cheers

Dan
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Doesn't sound like a tough situation.

You can either say: "I might have some time on Thursday."

or

"What day is good for you? I'll see what my schedule's like."
 
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Just be like "Ok, [insert whatever day]day then, if you cant make it, too bad"

just my humble take
 
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i replied back saying u either want to see me or not if you do then lets make plans if you dnt then lets go our seperate ways.

And she txted back saying u said wednesday without even asking if i could that night. I can do any otha night execept weds and fri. I was the one that asked if you wanted to go for a drink y would i do that just for fun!

What should i put back?

Something like thats fine i just dont wanna be given the runaround?

Cheers
 
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Mantis Toboggan

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danny0001uk said:
i replied back saying u either want to see me or not if you do then lets make plans if you dnt then lets go our seperate ways.

And she txted back saying u said wednesday without even asking if i could that night. I can do any otha night execept weds and fri. I was the one that asked if you wanted to go for a drink y would i do that just for fun!

What should i put back?

Something like thats fine i just dont wanna be given the runaround?

Cheers
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What runaround?

Sounds like you asked her out ONCE, and on this ONE day you asked her, she happened to be busy. Sometimes that happens, you know....people have lives.

So, now you're already losing your cool, yelling at the chick via text. Lighten up, chief. Some of you guys are way too sensitive.

Whatever you respond, just pretend like the "angry text" never happened. Don't talk about a runaround. Just say "I should be free Tuesday. How's that sound?" And let that be the end of it.

Dudes are so worried about being "alpha" that they're trying to dominate before they even meet the chick...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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say thursday. we all know you gonna be jacking it off every day so stop pretending like youre busy.
 
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Tiguere said:
say thursday. we all know you gonna be jacking it off every day so stop pretending like youre busy.
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